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I am wondering if it will be a turn off if I have anal sex on the first date

liesal wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 14, 2024 7:57 pm

I am wondering if it will be a turn off if I have anal sex on the first date

I am blissfully married, but I think you have to go with what makes you who you are....
Why bridle your passion. If you feel it and want it. Ask for it. The whole point of dating is to explore what is possible between the two of you. From my observation, anal only is very important to you. Be who you are!

my humble opinion.

liesal wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 14, 2024 7:57 pm

I am wondering if it will be a turn off if I have anal sex on the first date

As with everything it depends on the date. If he’s fond of anal he will feel like winning the lottery. If he’s not into anal it can be a turnoff.

In between I think there are also a lot of men who will just fuck your ass and be happy they got sex at the first date.

liesal wrote: ↑

Sun Jan 14, 2024 7:57 pm

I am wondering if it will be a turn off if I have anal sex on the first date

I see nothing wrong with anal sex on a first date. I don’t see why we should treat anal sex differently than any other form of sex.

Lee and I did not have anal sex on our first date although I wish we did. We were both tipsy and rampant and were a sweaty ball of cum and sweat. A night I will never forget

While I cannot say I have ever had sex on a first date, I can say I've never had sex on a first date. However, I have had anal sex with women on the first dates in which sex was involved. Frankly, I quite enjoyed knowing there was nothing truly off-limits during sex.

I have found it to be pretty common when I date younger or older women. There is oral and vaginal sex first, usually, but not uncommon to also have anal. Women in the 45 to 55 range, they tend to be more reticent about anal in my experience (not trying to generalize; just my experience.) Anal on a first date is a sign of more anal in the dates ahead, and that is a blissful thing.

I've never had anal on a first date and don't think I would trust enough. I was anal only with my first steady boyfriend. We were together for 3 months before we started anal. I was not a big fan of it because I was only 17 and he was only concerned for his pleasure and not mine. Things are now different with the love of my life!

I met a girl at a BDSM-munch and we met up privately a few days after to continue our discussion. That night, we had oral, vaginal and anal sex, and it was awesome, especially the anal. Sadly, it didn't go much further than that first date, but I would have loved to explore more with her.

I think it really depends on the guy, but if you plan on having more anal regularly (or even mostly or exclusively), people who'd be turned off from you offering it probably wouldn't make a good fit as partners.

I don't think I would like anal on a first date but then again when we got together with my friend and her man I allowed him to fuck my ass, now he is in my ass most weeks lol. Seriously if I was to meet someone new on a first date I don't think I would. He would get oral that would blow his mind, anal would be a little later. Of course if he wasn't into anal that would be a deal breaker so bye bye!!