Living the Anal Only life

New to the forum? Introduce yourself to the other members of the community. Share a little bit about yourself and your anal only experience and motivations.
Dream1
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Living the Anal Only life

Post by Dream1 » Fri Sep 19, 2014 10:25 pm

Hello everybody,

I only just discovered this forum and thought I would sign up and introduce myself. I never knew there was a forum for this and happy to find a place with people of similar interests :)

A little bit about myself. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and have led an anal only for about 2 years. We haven't had vaginal sex in those 2 years and can honestly say we both love anal and the switch has been fabulous. Anal sex was always a passion for me and for the first year of our relationship we had what I would consider a very active sex life (at least once a day). It took awhile before I broached the subject of anal. It had never been of interest for her but she agreed to try it. The first time like most was a bit painful for her, but she said the experience over all wasn't bad and didn't know why girls got so upset by it. It became something that was worked more and more into our love making until after a few weeks after we first tried it, it was a constant request from both of us! I loved the feeling and she said that her orgasms were harder and longer through anal. She could orgasm just from anal alone and nothing else. Eventually we just came to the conclusion that we both love it so much that we just stopped vaginal all together. Sure it might be a little messy sometimes but both of us enjoy it so much we have never gone back to vaginal penetration. We know this may not be considered normal but it works for us and we love it. Its even now gotten to the point where she regularly wears a butt plug as she just loves the feeling so much (yes don't worry i'll be marrying her lol). Our sex life is still constant and I can credit that to our AO lifestyle.

I love reading all your stories and hope to contribute to this community. For us, we are AO and love it!

Regards

amorous945
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by amorous945 » Sun Sep 21, 2014 6:26 am

Hello, Dream1, and welcome to the group! My wife and are about 99.9% on the AO scale, and have been for many years.

Robert
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by Robert » Sun Sep 21, 2014 1:44 pm

Hi Dream1 and thanks for sharing with us.

Contributions like yours give those of us who aspire to AO life hope that we can do it too! Those longer and harder orgasms have been very persuasive in getting my girlfriend to be open to anal with ever incresing frequency. I thin it becomes addictive and very hard to turn down for some women once they've become relaxed about it.

taylork
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by taylork » Mon Sep 22, 2014 3:17 pm

Thats a little like how my gf and i progressed only a bit quicker. Your gf is lucky like mine as she can cum from just the anal alone, about half the time anyway.

Don't ever think about it not being considered normal as its perfectly natural for you both to enjoy this and want to do this. Its amazing that each and every time we have sex we get to have anal. Think how many guys would want to do that?

Dream1
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by Dream1 » Mon Sep 22, 2014 6:03 pm

Thanks for the kind words everybody. I'm just so glad there are other people I can talk to about our lifestyle :) I've been reading other stories as well and it seems like a friendly environment.

Recently she's discovered she can squirting as well just from anal. For us it takes a long time, keeping her on edge, and has to be on her back. Something about the position no doubt, not much of a doctor lol.

I'm hoping soon for her to try ATM but I'm unsure how to bring it up. She loves blowjobs, but she hasn't been too willing to try yet. We are both very adventurous so I haven't been to upset as eventually she's always wanted to try something new. Any advice though?

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Re: Living the AO life

Post by marcus » Tue Sep 23, 2014 3:31 am

Dream1 wrote: I've been reading other stories as well and it seems like a friendly environment.

For the most part - we have had our disagreements.
Dream1 wrote: Recently she's discovered she can squirting as well just from anal. For us it takes a long time, keeping her on edge, and has to be on her back. Something about the position no doubt, not much of a doctor lol.

I don't really understand "squirting" - isn't that just losing bladder control?
Dream1 wrote: I'm hoping soon for her to try ATM but I'm unsure how to bring it up. She loves blowjobs, but she hasn't been too willing to try yet. We are both very adventurous so I haven't been to upset as eventually she's always wanted to try something new. Any advice though?

Like with most things, there isn't a halfway house - she's either willing or she's not. Just ask her to do it sometime would be my advice, as I can't see a way of bringing it up which doesn't in the end lead to either yes or no. My wife won't - I asked and she said no and that was the end of that, but then again it's not a great fantasy of mine like it is with many others around here.

mardobolo
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by mardobolo » Tue Sep 23, 2014 2:15 pm

Dream1 wrote:I'm hoping soon for her to try ATM but I'm unsure how to bring it up. She loves blowjobs, but she hasn't been too willing to try yet.

I don't speak from direct experience (my wife hasn't done ATM yet), but are you preparing her thoroughly beforehand? That's what the porn stars do, get squeaky clean inside first. It seems this would make it likelier to get her interested. (Does anybody do ATM without a thorough cleaning beforehand?)

Best of luck!

Robert
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Re: Living the AO life

Post by Robert » Thu Sep 25, 2014 4:14 am

Any tips on how to get her to orgasm from anal alone? My girlfriend has never done so, and I would love to see it happen! And also I think that if she could do that, it could sway her more towards going anal only.

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Post by relic » Thu Sep 25, 2014 1:27 pm

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Friendly tip regarding anal orgasms

Post by relic » Tue Sep 30, 2014 3:05 am

Robert wrote:Any tips on how to get her to orgasm from anal alone? My girlfriend has never done so, and I would love to see it happen! And also I think that if she could do that, it could sway her more towards going anal only.

The function of the clitoris is as the main erogenous zone on the female body - the female equivalent of a penis. While some women might be able to sometimes achieve orgasm from vaginal or anal stimulation alone, I personally don't see the point. Think about it from a male perspective. Maybe there could be way for a male to achieve orgasm without involving penile stimulation. It may be possible but it probably wouldn't happen easily or often and it wouldn't necessarily be better than a penis-aided orgasm.

It's my opinion, Robert, that your (or anyone's) best hope to help your partner become turned-on by the idea of having anal intercourse every time you make love is to make sure she has plenty of clitoral stimulation while you're together.

My theory is that vast majority of men who have anal-only wives are probably very generous lovers in bed and good husbands the rest of the time. Their wives are willing to "give that up" every time because the female is getting at least as much satisfaction from the sex as the man, and because outside of the bed she is being treated with much respect all week long.

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Here's my tip for anyone reading this post:

First, hopefully she is already turned-on by the idea of anal sex to begin with, and open to trying it out. I'm assuming everyone here has a partner willing to learn and try. Next figure out how to perform oral sex on a woman well (yes clitoral stimulation). Go on porn sites and search how-to videos.

Next also perform oral-anal stimulation on your lady.

Purchase an electric-powered (not battery) magic wand-type sex toy. The most famous one is the Hitachi Magic Wand but there are others. We have one called a "fairy mini" that works well for us.

After you have warmed her up with your oral clitoral stimulation and you have moved on to oral-anal stimulation (don't go from her anus back to her vulva). Turn on the magic wand and have her use it on her clitoris as you begin to give her oral-anal pleasures.

Chances are the orgasms will already be starting and she's already going to be associating pleasure with your tongue in her ass.

As it progresses to full-on anal sex that magic wand device and her clitoris are going to be your best buddies in turning your lady on to anal sex more and more often.

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In our case, regular vaginal sex just seems too vanilla for us now. That's why my wife wants anal every time for it to be satisfying for her. But that doesn't mean we ignore her clitoris. And we don't ever try to achieve the lofty, difficult, and unnecessary goal of orgasm without clitoral stimulation. It happens sometimes but we're not trying for it - and we especially don't attach some magical significance to an anal-only orgasm. Certainly when you and your lady are just learning, I'd think that knowing and respecting the power of the clitoris on a woman would be one of the keys to satisfying anal sex for your partner.

Finally, if you are a lucky enough guy to have a lady open to all this, you should be treating her with the respect she deserves all week long. Put her on a pedestal. Make sure she knows how happy you are with her all the time. Her decision to let you have anal with her on Saturday night might have been made on Wednesday when you went out of your way to do something nice for her (like picking her up from work instead of her taking the bus, or doing the grocery shopping, or cleaning the bathroom, or folding the clean dry laundry).

Be a good lover 24/7.

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