Anal orgasms

[MissChief]

This has probably been discussed before but I have been vaginally chaste for almost nine months and still cannot orgasm from anal stimulation. In the past I tried a combination of vaginal and anal stimulation with less and less vaginal stimulation so I can better associate sexual pleasure with anal sex. I'm starting to think that maybe it isn't physically possible for some women to have anal orgasms but haven't completely given up. Any advice?

[Anal Model]

I found that once I was able to orgasm from anal fingering that it was significantly easier to achieve anal orgasm from intercourse.

Once I had learned to navigate that part of my body (by myself and with my partner) I was able to fully surrender to the intense sensations of anal orgasms. I found the process of reaching anal orgasm to be much easier than reaching orgasm through vaginal intercourse. I feel strongly that a prolonged warm up is very important when learning to reach anal orgasm.

[gurlcrazy]

It may be more helpful to consider that you aren't really trying to have an anal orgasm. What you want is a *full body* orgasm, with anal as an important stimulation source. Work on developing anal sensitivity with vibration, & work on using your awareness to spread the sexual energy around your entire body.

[MissChief]

Update: I've since achieved regular anal orgasms. Two things make a big difference for me. The first is masturbating my ass while having a full bladder. Having to pee really bad and holding it in while I get down to business, for whatever reason, makes it much more pleasurable. I think it might be that filling my ass with a toy, along with a full bladder, puts a lot of pressure on my vagina. But the pleasure doesn't exactly radiate from my vagina (or maybe it does and some nerve endings are crossed? I really don't know). The source of it feels like it's deep in my ass toward the front (i.e. toward my vagina). Stimulating this pleasure zone results in long, mind-blowing orgasms. I still don't understand the physiology of this, so if anyone can shed some light on why this happens I'd be very grateful.

The second is using something that goes deep. The first time I had a full-blown orgasm with the full bladder method, I used one of those long, slim candles with about 7 inches of it inside me, and rotating it in circles so it would grind against the walls of my ass. The harder I do it, the quicker it gets me to my climax.

Anyway, thanks for all your advice and tips!

[analsexonly]

You're not the first I've heard of who has had success with anal orgasms when combined with a full bladder. I am not entirely certain either, but I suspect this may have to do with pressure and repositioning of the internal components of the clitoris, which seem to be largely responsible for anal orgasms and which many find they can stimulate better anally than vaginally. The deep stimulation could be something similar—a lot of people have a sensitive spot at about that depth which can trigger orgasms, and I simply don't know whether this would be another internal clitoris contact point or something else. Because men who engage in anal stimulation often report something similar, it may be something else entirely.

[Canassman]

based on a recent conversation with my wife I have discovered that she has only had anal orgasms in one position - essentially spooning with no clit or vaginal stimulation. Instead she plays with her nipples while I thrust in and out of her. The angle we are at is one in which she says she feels me pushing into her cervix - I have asked if it's actually her g-spot being indirectly stimulated but she insists its deeper than that and that her orgasm feels deep and not like a g-spot orgasm or the vaginal ones she had before we were AO. I suspect that the pressure of her legs being closed also indirectly stimulates the wider clitoral "legs" that descend on either side of the vagina and protrude down towards the anus. All(?) of these factors mean that she can orgasm best in this position now and it is her favourite - giving her the best, deepest orgasms ever. I personally prefer to fuck her while she lays on her back and I'm standing on the edge of the bed - but she can only orgasm then with clitoral stimulation - so we trade off.

[AlanKasich]

I was 17 and just wanted to loose my 'anal virginity' had taken 20mg of methadone a few hours before(not because I was gonna have anal) and watch porn like http://camsdesire.com/ or xhamster and it was ok..

[Buttsex]

Hi, I'm a tgirl and been doing my butthole since I was 4 and serious masturbation of my hole since I was 14, I had all but given up on it till one night I was fucking my ass with a cucumber, laying curled up on my side, thrusting back into the fruit, most the stimulus hitting the forward wall of my rectum above and past my prostate, it starts out cold, the deepest reaches are going cold with every thrust, then it's like I gotta pee (an almost full bladder does help) But it's not exactly that, cuz there's a tingling along with it that starts to spread all over the whole tummy area and beyond until my whole body is vibrating with this energy/feeling and my dick is cumming too, it's just not the center, but part of the whole thing and cum doesn't shoot, but kind of drips out, all over the place, but I'm not touching it.
Oh, I was 28, I'm 50 now and have had some of my best anal orgasms since I made a glider fucking machine, it is the closest thing to a real lover I've ever had, I'm actually becoming quit fond of it and long to mount it several times a day, it's like I'm falling in love with a machine, ha!

[Buttsex]

Update. I didn't mention about with a partner, ha! Only once have I had a official anal orgasm (I have a few kinds of anal o's, but I'm talking the full body, leave the earth kind here) with someone else and it was in a harness, I was in the harness suspended face up with stirrups holding my legs up and open, he was standing between my legs. For some reason being in a harness makes a certain spot inside me easier to get. Also, the type of thrusting makes a big difference, quick short or long thrusts on the in stroke work good, but I don't mean for him to bottom out necessarily, just be quick when going in and keep 'em coming, don't stop! That night with Doug, I came from my ass and something I cannot explain, after two of these orgasms ( with just a dribble of cum from my dick) my lover noticed some white fluid from my ass on his dick, he got some on his finger and showed it to me, so I licked it off his finger and it tasted like cum... I've tasted juices from my butt several times, it's kinda sweet, but this had that unmistakable bitter taste, like some sourdough bread. It wasn't his either, I got his probably 10 min later. Hope some of this helps at least one of you ladies (or men) find the key to orgasming anally.

[UnicornMom]

This has probably been discussed before but I have been vaginally chaste for almost nine months and still cannot orgasm from anal stimulation. In the past I tried a combination of vaginal and anal stimulation with less and less vaginal stimulation so I can better associate sexual pleasure with anal sex. I'm starting to think that maybe it isn't physically possible for some women to have anal orgasms but haven't completely given up. Any advice?

I find that clitoral stimulation is a distraction, especially when you are trying to orgasm quickly.