AO for us means no touching of the vagina inside or out, or on the clit for any pleasurable reasons. Washing etc is fine of course. All sexual contact is anal or oral although he has said my vagina could still be slapped for example if I was misbehaving! Thanks for the reply :-) You mentioned that ...

Sounds like you hit the jackpot sir! Congratulations, and welcome

If I may ask, about how often do you have anal sex with her?

Hello and welcome! Thanks for sharing

I also have one question for you - what exactly does AO mean for you and your partner? No vaginal penetration, or also no clit stimulation?

Maybe next week I'll start the challenge again. I'll even mark the days I've gone without touching my pussy on a calendar! Maybe seeing my progress like that can encourage me to keep going, despite the need to come. Sounds like a lovely idea. Maybe even post in this thread every day that you don't ...

Thanks for sharing myttia and taylork. Much appreciated advice. My wife has been fighting off a stomach virus lately so not the best time to bring these things up lol but I will be sure to keep you posted on our progress.

@amorous945 - thank you for the elaboration! Somehow I missed your first post in the thread :-/ What you say about mental vs physical certainly rings true. I know my wife's 'brain gets in the way' (Tin Cup anyone??)...and I know that if she spent more time exploring and getting comfortable with her ...

. This one technique (until a person learns the art of receiving) can help some people to receive anal sex without pain. Thanks for the tip! I will see if I can get my wife to give this a try. One question though - is your implication that mastering the art of receiving is different from mastering ...

@McMoose - thanks for the advice and the welcome! Patience is definitely the name of the game. I've done my best to make sure she understands my ravenous desire for her asshole without putting pressure on her. I know she knows I want it all the time. The tricky/challenging/frustrating part is just t...

Would she be willing to take a prescribed anti-anxiety medication? Based on your experience with the pot I'm thinking that may help. For better or worse, she definitely wouldn't. Most of the time she won't even take an aspirin if she has a splitting headache! We experimented a bit when we were youn...

Thanks for the encouragement, Marcus! I'll be sure to keep you all posted of any progress