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by RHume
Thu Aug 07, 2014 10:12 am
Forum: General
Topic: Should anal hurt?
Replies: 33
Views: 32608

Re: Should anal hurt?

There are women who have trouble having vaginal sex without pain (I've met a few), why can't the same apply to anal? Viewing every woman as one who just hasn't "come around" to getting off anally is an unrealistic outlook at best. I don't think you're reading the original post fully. I don't thinks...
by RHume
Tue Aug 05, 2014 11:13 am
Forum: General
Topic: What does Anal Only Lifestyle mean to you?
Replies: 40
Views: 40674

Re: What does AO/lifestyle mean to you?

It means exactly what it says to my fiance and I. Anal Only, we don't engage in any vaginal play.
by RHume
Fri Aug 01, 2014 11:28 am
Forum: General
Topic: Anal Only Contract or Prenup
Replies: 14
Views: 11709

Re: AO Contract or Prenup

My fiancee and I are in a D/s relationship, which is also AO, and was agreed to, and an obviously not legally enforceable "slave" contract. It works great for us, might not work so great for others. I know many people view D/s as "abuse" but they misunderstand what it is about.
by RHume
Sat Jun 28, 2014 5:54 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: After a long drought we've returned to anal only
Replies: 3
Views: 3099

Re: After a long drought we've returned to AO

Welcome back. Nice to see some other Dominants around these parts.
by RHume
Mon Jun 23, 2014 5:15 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Is your partner satisfied?
Replies: 19
Views: 15225

Re: Is your partner satisfied?

In general, in healthy D/s relationships, a Dominant and a submissive compliment each other. In my case, in particular, my fiance/submissive doesn't like to make decisions, and has issues with taking responsibility for those things. And she isn't alone. I don't *force* her to do anything. In most To...
by RHume
Sun Jun 22, 2014 7:23 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Is your partner satisfied?
Replies: 19
Views: 15225

Re: Is your partner satisfied?

As somebody who is in a long term D/s relationship, if my partner were truly unhappy with our AO relationship, I would alter it. I do rather wish people would learn a bit about things without just flat condemning things they don't understand.
by RHume
Mon Jun 09, 2014 5:59 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introductions
Replies: 5
Views: 3970

Re: Introductions

Hello. I can't pretend to understand that kind of relationship as it's far outside of my experience. If I may ask, if you are both into this voluntarily then what purpose does the device serve? Yes, we are both in this relationship voluntarily, all healthy D/s relationships, at their core are volun...
by RHume
Mon Jun 09, 2014 5:56 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introductions
Replies: 5
Views: 3970

Re: Introductions

I am very interested in this kind of oath. Could you describe your lifestyle a bit: how she lives with this belt, how she feels about it, and what kind of sex life do you have? :) Well, the neosteel is explicitly designed for long term wear, so it's designed with hygiene in mind, as well as securit...
by RHume
Sat Jun 07, 2014 8:17 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introductions
Replies: 5
Views: 3970

Introductions

Hello there, I am a 37yo Man, who is engaged in an AO relationship of almost 2 years with my gf/pet. We are in a D/s relationship, which does colour things a bit, but I have never had vaginal intercourse, nor oral/vaginal interaction with her. I told her when I offered her my collar, that one of the...