Be careful with inexpensive toys, a lot of them come from places in China which have low standards for materials and hygiene. I got a nasty UTI from one of them a year or two back which put my sex life on hold for a couple of months. At the other end of the price scale, the NJoy toys are made from s...

My best ever AO relationship (although it didn't start that way) was with a girl who had never even considered anal sex when we first met. Although she was about 34 years old and sexually active she had never had an orgasm. But she had one almost instantly when we tried anal sex! Sadly I had to relo...

I don't see any reason not to do it but people who post there should be gently warned that they have a better chance of being struck by lightning. Those who post here are literally sprinkled across half the globe (US, UK, Europe, Asia, Australia, NZ, South Africa) and at least half appear to be in s...

I think people who don't know any better confuse polyamory with promiscuity. Polyamory is not a licence to have sex with anyone you come across, it's almost the reverse. It means having a meaningful relationship with two or more other people at the same time. Now, maintaining a good relationship wit...

Maybe that's because you have the proposition back to front. No woman is going to choose you just because you like anal any more than you would choose someone unseen because (say) you are the same height. As many of us here can attest, if you are open about who you are and what you want, you will fi...

I found this in a distant corner of the web and it works really well in our household, I'd be interested to know if it works for others. The 'normal' position for emptying our bowels is to squat - the porcelain throne only showed up in the last couple of centuries, and in France and elsewhere you ca...

Well @hornycpl perhaps that day has arrived. Since searches for vaginal porn far outnumber the searches for anal porn, maybe most people take anal for granted and are looking to vaginal for that naughty thrill? Just because people don't talk about anal doesn't mean they're not doing it. How many of ...

Here's an important subject we don't get to discuss much. You only have to walk down the street to notice that no two people look alike. Those of us who have the pleasure of (ahem) closely inspecting a variety of genitalia can tell you that's just as true under the covers. And we can reasonably assu...

Good point - I like to think of anal sex as offering an open path the very heart of the person (metaphorically speaking) . Do you either of you find that your first encounter with a long penis required some extra training to get past the inner sphincter? I've found that if the receiver is really tur...

Hi Neighbour! (I'm also from rural Australia - yes, it's a big place ...).

Just wondering whether anal play is involved when you have a female partner and if so whether you top or bottom (or both)?