In my experience it's a response to friction rather than sexual arousal. This is one reason why anal sex gets easier after the initial entry. I've found that mucus comes more quickly and freely with playmates who use toys extensively. It's not always apparent so I think diet and other factors play a...

Great answer, Prof! One of the joys and rewards of anal sex - for most people - is that it requires exceptional levels of communication to attain and enjoy. The recipient requires a high level of trust in his or her partner to achieve good results. Without that I found (in my novice days) that anal ...

Be sure to sterilize anything you buy from Chinese sites before using them internally. I know people who have got nasty UTIs from them.

I understand your point of view (been there, done that, got that T-shirt!) but do you really want to move on to someone who meets your sexual needs but may not be compatible in other parts of your life? She seems to be quite understanding of your needs while struggling (for now) to meet them. Perhap...

Not wanting to rain on your parade but I wonder whether a small clinic with a financial interest in promoting anal action can run a survey which represents the wider population. Check out the work being done by Indiana U for more credible results (which also show an increase in anal activity but not...

Conversations I've had on and off line suggest that many people are enjoying anal sex with making a big deal out of it. Just because they don't show up here doesn't mean it's not happening!

FYI I got the 'forum is being upgraded' message (and nothing else) on my phone browser for a few days until I tried clearing the cache. No such problem on my PC. I've never had this happen on any other forum so it's probably not doing much for the user count. Maybe there's a site setting that would ...

Clear and level headed: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/anal-se ... ed-to-know

It's an age when vaginas have become ordinary. Anal (done right) requires a special kind of relationship and some skill and care from both parties. For some of us, leaving out PIV makes sex an equal opportunity activity, setting aside restrictive gender roles and practices and enabling us to focus m...

Have her wear an NJoy plug as often as she can. The cool smooth steel and the weight will be very beneficial although at first she will only be able to wear it for short periods. A Large size would probably be right for her at this stage but if she can cope with a bit of a stretch you could try the ...