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by FarmerDan
Thu Jan 14, 2021 5:21 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Older women and AO
Replies: 1
Views: 311

Older women and AO

Recent very welcome posts by a couple of older women (@AvroAnson and @susieo) remind me of a couple of (female) friends in their 50s who I opened up (so to speak) to anal and anal only. They both said it was like rediscovering their sexuality all over again. One who was post-menopause and suffering ...
by FarmerDan
Wed Jan 13, 2021 3:42 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Elisabeth, Victoria. Mathieu, and Marc
Replies: 1
Views: 329

Re: Elisabeth, Victoria. Mathieu, and Marc

Great story, well written! Thanks :-}
by FarmerDan
Thu Dec 31, 2020 9:54 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Sigmoid
Replies: 4
Views: 565

Re: Sigmoid

Check out some diagrams if you haven't already. The sigmoid starts a little to the right, not straight in. A trick is to ease the dildo in as far as you can then gently rotate it until you find the path of least resistance. You also need to bear down so that you relax the muscles around the sigmoid ...
by FarmerDan
Thu Oct 29, 2020 10:36 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Overcoming ease of vaginal
Replies: 4
Views: 1000

Re: Overcoming ease of vaginal

You're definitely on the right track with plugging, which will help you relax open more quickly and also help you learn when and why you're more likely to be clean. Move up in size when you're ready! You could also do a little discreet cleaning and lubing before you head for bed. Thanks to the plug ...
by FarmerDan
Sun Oct 25, 2020 11:54 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Anal training
Replies: 7
Views: 3507

Re: Anal training

I think the shape is more important than the material. Some cheap plugs of both materials have a sharp edge on the base which is uncomfortable.

The ultimate plugs are the NJoy steel but they're expensive. If you don't want to spend that much I'd suggest a similar shape in glass or acrylic.
by FarmerDan
Fri Oct 02, 2020 11:18 am
Forum: General
Topic: Love for anal and the pudendal nerve
Replies: 1
Views: 579

Re: Love for anal and the pudendal nerve

That's an interesting idea. I'm sure physical differences contribute to anal enjoyment. However after doing a similar amount of diligent research (tough, but somebody has to do it, right?) I reckon mental and emotional factors play a bigger part. I've had a couple of partners who had quite good anal...
by FarmerDan
Sun Sep 27, 2020 1:42 am
Forum: General
Topic: Anal in academia
Replies: 3
Views: 1050

Re: Anal in academia

If you want some research into the wider population, Indiana Uhttps://nationalsexstudy.indiana.edu are probably the best in the field. I'm not sure even they get all their subjects to speak truthfully about their anal experience though.
by FarmerDan
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:08 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Anal in academia
Replies: 3
Views: 1050

Anal in academia

I stumbled across a couple of academic papers that involved some research into anal sex. Why women engage in anal intercourse. Women's experience of anal intercourse. They're only small studies and don't pretend to represent the general population but they include some interesting factoids and links...
by FarmerDan
Wed Sep 23, 2020 7:56 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Mind change
Replies: 5
Views: 810

Re: Mind change

Thanks for this and other recent replies here, LuvMyWifesAss - you and your wife are pretty iconic around here! Some questions I've been meaning you ask you - what's your favorite position? - how often do you use lube and how much? - does your wife observe any sort of anal-friendly diet? - do you th...
by FarmerDan
Sun Aug 23, 2020 5:42 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: What to do to prevent a mess
Replies: 6
Views: 1489

Re: What to do to prevent a mess

I assume you've followed the usual dietary advice. Have you thought of using a Shut Shot (shower attachment) for a quick rinse a few minutes before starting?