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by FarmerDan
Sun Oct 25, 2020 11:54 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Anal training
Replies: 7
Views: 2410

Re: Anal training

I think the shape is more important than the material. Some cheap plugs of both materials have a sharp edge on the base which is uncomfortable.

The ultimate plugs are the NJoy steel but they're expensive. If you don't want to spend that much I'd suggest a similar shape in glass or acrylic.
by FarmerDan
Fri Oct 02, 2020 11:18 am
Forum: General
Topic: Love for anal and the pudendal nerve
Replies: 1
Views: 390

Re: Love for anal and the pudendal nerve

That's an interesting idea. I'm sure physical differences contribute to anal enjoyment. However after doing a similar amount of diligent research (tough, but somebody has to do it, right?) I reckon mental and emotional factors play a bigger part. I've had a couple of partners who had quite good anal...
by FarmerDan
Sun Sep 27, 2020 1:42 am
Forum: General
Topic: Anal in academia
Replies: 3
Views: 741

Re: Anal in academia

If you want some research into the wider population, Indiana Uhttps://nationalsexstudy.indiana.edu are probably the best in the field. I'm not sure even they get all their subjects to speak truthfully about their anal experience though.
by FarmerDan
Thu Sep 24, 2020 6:08 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Anal in academia
Replies: 3
Views: 741

Anal in academia

I stumbled across a couple of academic papers that involved some research into anal sex. Why women engage in anal intercourse. Women's experience of anal intercourse. They're only small studies and don't pretend to represent the general population but they include some interesting factoids and links...
by FarmerDan
Wed Sep 23, 2020 7:56 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Mind change
Replies: 5
Views: 628

Re: Mind change

Thanks for this and other recent replies here, LuvMyWifesAss - you and your wife are pretty iconic around here! Some questions I've been meaning you ask you - what's your favorite position? - how often do you use lube and how much? - does your wife observe any sort of anal-friendly diet? - do you th...
by FarmerDan
Sun Aug 23, 2020 5:42 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: What to do to prevent a mess
Replies: 6
Views: 1064

Re: What to do to prevent a mess

I assume you've followed the usual dietary advice. Have you thought of using a Shut Shot (shower attachment) for a quick rinse a few minutes before starting?
by FarmerDan
Fri Aug 14, 2020 1:26 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Hello . New to this site..have a question
Replies: 5
Views: 957

Re: Hello . New to this site..have a question

Bootylicious41 you're probably having trouble getting past the fold at the inner end of your rectum. For most people this takes some practice. Push the dildo in gently while simultaneously bearing down and relaxing internally. At first you may get there some days but not others. It's worth the time...
by FarmerDan
Wed Aug 05, 2020 3:17 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Predisposition to AO?
Replies: 19
Views: 2389

Re: Predisposition to AO?

I take your point about privacy but you are committing a breach of trust. And trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship.
My ex wife found our daughter's private diary and decided to talk to her about issues she found there. A decade on, they have still not fully reconciled.
by FarmerDan
Tue Aug 04, 2020 7:41 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Predisposition to AO?
Replies: 19
Views: 2389

Re: Predisposition to AO?

After many years of studying people's sexuality (at first and second hand) I'm here to tell you that sexuality - and the reasons behind it - are far more varied than we ever used to think. Now that we are much freer to talk about it, it turns out that the majority of people are interested in anal pl...
by FarmerDan
Tue Aug 04, 2020 1:00 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Men who only receive anal
Replies: 16
Views: 7508

Re: Men who only receive anal

Well done, that's quite the achievement!

Do you ever get hard now?

I wonder whether there should be a special term for guys like you? After all AO is hardly rare among gay males. Penile Anal Only would do it, but it sounds a bit clinical.