Ok, so I talked him into trying spoons. He must think I do have some good ideas now after the success when I last got him to mix things up a bit. So no surprise he actually does approve, so we done it a few times the last 4 or 5 days and he wants to do it often too, so we're both enjoying sex all th...

I didn't mean for you all to argue! I guess this won't be easily resolved. Many thanks for all your answers.

I answered about every other day. We have this ongoing battle. He wants it nearly most days and I don't have the same desire for that frequency. We've found something of a compromise. Also, when we started out I didn't find it so easy and we've since found more comfortable ways as well as it becomin...

I meant couples just doing anal together. I get it that anal, as something that people try or part of a varied sex life, is common now.

LuvMyWifesAss wrote: When you say, "finish vaginally," I don't know if you mean you have vaginal sex.

No we do not. I'm leaning towards stopping. It's been months now and I feel the timing is right.

I feel confident enough in my own sense of femininity to know that what I choose to do with my boyfriend in private makes no difference. We could be celibate and it wouldn't change a thing. I did have initial questions and doubts when my boyfriend told me he wanted to attempt being anal only, but th...

Given that it's been months now since my boyfriend and I finished vaginally I'm thinking now just maybe I should finish with my birth control... It's a scary thought and I know it doesn't make sense but I'm sorta undecided. It would be nice to be free, but then neither of us can afford to deal with ...

That's great. That's exactly the position. You might try propping yourself up on a pillow to get higher. Derp :oops: I should have thought of that! Perfect!! The other good alternative is to do it off the side of a bed, or other piece of furniture with him standing. Of course, you can do the same t...

It's great when the decision is made by both parties. It's almost as though no one feels like they should be having vaginal sex. In almost every case, the couple feels more relaxed about anal and begins to enjoy it even more and more often. I don't see how it could be made by only the one :? But wh...

Ok, so this probably needs it's own topic, but here goes. I've worked out what we were doing wrong and why it was sometimes uncomfortable for me. I think this topic, while not 100% relevant has been helpful in setting us right. My boyfriend has always had a preference for one position (anal or vagin...