A little silicone lube around the opening is the ticket. (Works great in front too.) It doesn't rub off or dry out, and even a really small amount keeps the skin from getting sore.

Ole'!

YS

My new girlfriend is submissive to me and she has hinted at wanting to just abandon her pussy and clit completely in order to best please me with her ass. I told her I was honored but had to think about it since it was a big step. I thought about it and told her I want to have control over her cunt...

Check out stockroom.com and search for "stretch". There are several choices, mostly pretty inexpensive.

Cheers

YS

Positive reinforcement is key. During anal sex do as much as possible to make the experience positive for her. Let her know verbally how much you enjoy it and appreciate that she is willing to do it for you. Let her know you feel closer and more connected to her. Stimulate her breasts and clit, rub...

I'm in an extremely complicated relationship at the moment. (My punishment for getting involved with a woman who's not only beautiful, but intelligent and independent as well) She's told me that her personal rankings for methods of achieving pleasure are as follows... 1. Oral (giving) 2. Anal (but ...

About 22, with DW the year before we were married. Didn't do anything for her at the time, probably because I was clueless. Rosebuds have to be wooed, as she and I have belatedly discovered.

Cheers

YS

Coconut oil works great. Warm, it's a lot like any other oil of the same viscosity. Cold , it has this interesting texture somewhere between Vaseline and a Slurpee. For sex, (weirdly) the downside is that it smells like cookies. If you can keep from mentioning cookies, it's amazing. Mention cookies ...

Well, the risk of pregnancy is pretty low with anal...but you're saying that there's no risk of STIs?

If that were true, my best friend would still be alive.

Anal is really hot, in a whole lot of ways. It's seriously naughty, but without bringing in marriage-destroying things like swinging or threesomes. It pushes the envelope of trust, and rewards the effort with completely different kinds of orgasms (better ones IME). The connection with kink is often ...

Hi, yessica!

DW and I are moving towards doing mostly anal, so I'm most sympathetic. Is your DH also Pakistani? I thought folks from over there weren't too amenable to backdoor stuff, but that's probably just my ignorance.

Good luck, and lots of naughty fun!