For me, some reasons are: - Anal provides more stimulation: it has a vice-grip at the entrance, and it feels warmer. - It's more intimate. You know the girl must trust you and love you if she's open to it with you. She's more likely to reserve the ass for the ones she finds really special. - It's mo...

But now that we can be direct with one another he's confessed that anal is now his preference. It is a brave step for most people. It did take time for me to be open and honest with my wife. Though now that seems ridiculous as I'm sure she knew very well. The first time my girlfriend asked me wheth...

In her bum. I don't like pulling out. A few times I've pulled out and used her feet to jerk myself off, although that's a bit more of a hassle for her because then she has to clean her feet up afterwards too. But it's easy to go straight to a footfuck since my dick is already lubed. Not interested i...

Definitely not something that I'm into, and if a girl tried to do it, I'd try to persuade her not to. It's just not a good idea, due to the bacteria.

Yes, and not just deep inside; her sphincter contracts as well. It's the most amazing feeling in the world. My girlfriend can't cum if there's anything in her vagina, so even when we were having vaginal sex, I wasn't able to compare her orgasm during vaginal with orgasm during anal. She was able to ...

Yeah, I suppose I am a bit obsessional about it. I simply wouldn't be happy in a relationship if anal wasn't on the table.

From reading around most of the male hang-ups are about hygiene or associations with homosexuality or their ideas about masculinity. If you could strip that away (which is all learned behavior) would there still be some underlying attraction to anal. Who knows... I can't understand why somebody wou...

The question is, is it better because it is really better, or because I'm getting the kind of release my body craves? No sex act is "really better" than any other - we like anal the best, other people like vaginal, other people like oral, some people don't really have a preference - it's just diffe...

French Lover wrote:At thirteen, with my very first contact with the porn world, I was quickly way more turned on by anal.

Me too. I've had a preference for anal for as long as I can remember having any sexual desires.

It depends what you mean by "natural" instincts. One common use of that term is that a behaviour is natural just in case we have an evolutionary disposition to do it. In this sense, no, I don't think there is a natural instinct to have anal sex. I'm not sure what benefit anal sex would have had for ...