Sorry it has been a while. Busy times and posting here is a low priority. Hope this does not offended anyone, particularly the administrator of this fine site. Anyway, Pink your advice is great advice if sex never comes up as a topic. That rarely happens for me but it has happened. I usually am not ...

Hi Kat, From your other thread, I want to say sorry for all you have been through. I would bring it up when sex becomes a conversational topic. Usually for me the conversation goes from her talking about past relationships and then eventually things turn to sex. Like you, I have news most don't want...

Hi Kat, I really cannot understand these people who put you in the FB zone. I have not had a lot of anal sex in my life but because I have had some, I crave it like crazy. When I finally get some, I'm in heaven even if I have to go very, very slow and even if I don't get off. I have had a very hard ...

Hi Blizzak, Here is how I would handle it: Get tested for STDs, but do it in the most untraceable manner. It sounds like you don't have an open marriage, so if nothing shows up now and over the next year, I would not say anything to her. You will probably cause a lot of pain for her if you tell her ...

Point taken. The overall message here is that sometimes you have to make the best of a bad situation until you can get to a better place. I write using words like may, not because I'm some wishy-washy, indecisive wimp, but because there is a lot of information we do not have (as much as she has told...

I'm new here but here it goes: Alice may be asking us for ideas for a good reason. She may benefit from finding out how to achieve an anal orgasm. Unfortunately this guy would try to stop it if it happened since he is so sadistic, but it is a good thing to achieve. Also remember that many of the wom...