Maybe you're asking a non-gay guy and he's just giving any excuse to justify his sexual distaste for men (I tried to illustrate a similar point to you and AnalAnnaLisa in the last page of this topic: Rimming ). People live by so many double standards... there's the incredibly old and classic sexual ...

And I hate every label. Labels are given by insecure people, so they know what they aren't. We are attracted to people, and we have sex with people (I hope). It's the attraction that matters, not what we call it. I really liked what you said there; it's very rare in these days people recognizing we...

First things first: quit porn (if you haven't already). Secondly: don't accept crumbs. Lovemaking is serious and ideally makes a big part of the relationship, so there can be no bargaining about it; it's a not a trade, it's a profound mutual act. If she isn't fully into what she's doing than you're ...

Also, and this is a bit TMI. I have trouble with constipation (another reason I didn't want his huge cock ramming me). I've done all the dietary things...lots of water, fiber etc... it's a life long problem. I think an occasional enema may help. You may just be evacuating the wrong way.This may sou...

I'm no expert, but this is what I think: *Dilators are great to use in succession to prepare for the real deal, or a larger toy. *A plug can be worn for a period of time because it has a flared base that can seat between your cheeks . plugs have a larger, flared head that can vary between short (si...

To those of you who used both, what's the difference? Either in feel, place of stretching, efficacy to prepare...

Out of the many possible approaches, being honest is the simplest and probably the best one. You want to start off this relation with the right foot, although I think you'll only have to be blunt (draw the line) in a last case scenario. I believe the best way to ease him into it is not making it abo...

Okay a few issues but methinks we can figure it out. 1. Our safety and your responsibility = liability. So basically you have to verify people as being who they really say they are and not bots, catfish, scammers or serial killers. Then you are gonna need to be banning people for harassing other us...

I would derive no satisfaction from arguing someone out of their convictions, even if I could. Pitty... I got here by being proved wrong countless times in the past and I keep moving forward by being proved wrong in the present. This is your post, and I defer to the possibility of your receiving re...

I just stumbled upon this. It makes an interesting philosophical change from the standard fare. But, sadly, appears to have fallen down a hopeless rabbit hole argument over semantics, and the inability to arrive at an agreement on the conventions of communication.. Yes, it did, and it saddened me. ...