Thanks - I will try to ask questions when they come up!

This isn't really a challenge or anything, but I did set myself a goal recently that I would do anal more just so I can relax during it. With my now-ex bf, we did it a couple of times every day, and I really had to learn to breathe correctly during it so I wouldn't tense up. When we first started it...

I used to think that I wouldn't be able to find anyone who wouldn't treat me like a fetish object, but I actually did find someone who, at least for a few months, was able to kind of deal with my issues around having vaginal sex without getting weird. When we first started seeing one another, I expl...

So I said in my intro post that I basically can't have vaginal sex due to a medical issue, so I need some advice as far as dating and sex.

How should I bring up the idea that vaginal sex is not going to happen? When should I bring it up?

That makes sense, Amorous - I think older guys generally seem more realistic about life/less ridiculous about roadbumps and stuff.

Hey, amorous - It's been 3 different relationships where I've gotten to the point where I could talk about this. Only one guy said it was outright a deal breaker. The other 2 were trying to be OK with it, but something fundamental changed after that - the relationships seemed to be going really well...

Thanks for the welcome! :) I will look on the share and advice forms. Yes, I'm unattached - it's pretty hard to find a relationship since it's not like I go broadcasting this ahead of time, and when I've gotten to a point where it's relevant to talk about that winds up being a problem. Sort of a chi...

Hi, I'm Kat - I'm honestly not sure what to say - I read some of the other intros so I'll try going with how they did it :D I'm a woman from Illinois in the US. I haven't been "anal only" though I kind of have to be if I want to have sex, as a medical condition makes regular sex EXTREMELY painful. I...