That's great, thanks for the info!

I was just wondering if anyone here has a receiving partner (or is a receiving partner) that suffers from IBS and if so, does it lead to anal being less pleasurable/more problematic/less frequent or any other problems and how do you work around them?

Those are some great stories!

For me it was the side of a road through a forest, in a dense patch of foliage and bushes. Good times!

That is quite amazing to me. I know by experience that if I spend over two months without having sex with someone other than myself I start hemorrhaging sanity. So, at that stage, it doesn't particularly matter which hole is being used.

Hi Tom, Thanks for your posts although I don't understand why you took the anal out of your name. :) When I said about the kind of lady not to introduce to the family, it isn't about the family's perception. We never discuss our detailed sexual preferences with family anyway. It isn't that. It's ju...

Thanks for the advice, I know it just comes down to talking it out, like we did when her libido disappeared. I was just hoping to see if anyone had gone through something similar before and maybe get the opinions of a few women on his forum, so I could approach the conversation with a better underst...

Potential underlying medical condition may be limiting libido. I'd talk to a doc. We kind of already fixed that, as I said we have a rather regular sex life now. She admitted herself that when her libido was super high, it was actually unhealthy as she was pressuring herself to be basically a nymph...

So, after my introduction, here is the main reason I joined. I have been in a stable, monogamous relationship for almost eight years, five of which living together. After about two years of relationship we tried anal sex, which I had been fantasizing about since puberty. It went pretty well, I was n...

Soon, in the advice board I should think!
And thanks for the welcome.