Skip the stuff you can buy in the drugstore or Wal-Mart. If you have an Adam & Eve store locally, go there. The lube I prefer is called "Climax Bursts" - it has little beads of vitamin E or something or other in it. What I like about it is that it is safe with silicone toys, stays slickery for a lon...

Hi! Nice to meet you!
Just popped in for a few minutes this morning and saw your post so had to say welcome...

Just going to throw a wrench in the works for y'all: I can have an orgasm by dreaming about it - so nothing's touched anything below my waist. In the past, I was able to have an orgasm from just thinking about it - essentially daydreaming. Again, no manipulation of clitoris, etc. For many years, I n...

14, almost 15. You know how the danger of getting caught in the act always seems to heighten any sexual experience? We were in his basement bedroom and his parents were home. He didn't have a condom handy and I wasn't on the pill yet...

Re-read your original post... because I couldn't figure out how your father would know what he's looking at as most girls do not have an intact hymen by your age. And, the reasons are entirely NOT sexual. Anything from riding horseback to an accidental fall to the insertion of a tampon would break t...

Well, literally I found a link while I was looking at Anal porn on Tumbler...followed the link and lurked a day or so and then decided to join and start posting. DH is ignoring me of late...and I made what he thinks is an idle threat in passing the other night. Doesn't seem to have helped. I really ...

I am popping in for a minute, so right now I just want to say HI! I promise to come back and answer some of your questions a little later. But, the one thing I want to say right now is "START LOVING YOURSELF and your body just the way it is." Once you have a little more life and world experience, yo...

Just waving HI! From one newbie to the other...

I've seen some really terribly wrong advice out there on the WWW coming from medical professionals. And just recently came across a page from a fellow AO (male) who gave what I felt to be terrible advice regarding glass toys. So I do think we need some FAQs that address some of the "don't do it or y...

I wear butt plugs frequently. From past experience, I've figured out what works best for me for various purposes. My favorite plug for long term wear is actually a vibrating plug that was badly engineered so it quit functioning early on in it's life with me. But, the fit is perfect for my ass - no e...