I'd guess that over the years of my husband and I indulging in anal sex, even before we evolved to the current state we're in, I can count the number of times on one hand that there was any mess of sorts. I might "douche" if I'm overly concerned about it (I have a bulb injector that I've used a doze...

We're at a point now where I can relax and take most of him inside of my comfortably without needing lube. While it's rare that we won't lube up, it's happened a few times and I'm no worse for the wear. Granted, he can't jackhammer away but the added friction and tactile sensation can be delicious a...

How's it going now? :) It's still going great. Like most couples, there are ebbs and flows depending on how I'm feeling, he's feeling, various things going on in life, etc. But we're still averaging 3 times a week, sometimes up to 5 or 6 times a week (one evening we even engaged twice and went for ...

Quite honestly, it's been going amazing. There's obviously logistics and sometimes (rarely but it happens) prep that needs to occur so pure spontaneity when we want, how we want is not always there. But we're pretty much settled on 2-3 times/week and we're both very much happy. It's still hard to go...

I fear you all missed the part where I mentioned that anal sex wasn't new to us at all. Prior to my giving birth 15 months ago, it was a 2-3, sometimes 4 times a month thing. IT's just we had to stop in my 3rd trimester and our sex life since I delivered has been in a real bad funk do to the damage ...

Turning out better than expected. We had anal sex 3 times last week and oral on 2 other nights. That's the most sex we've had in almost 18 months in a week. Literally a lot of other minor issues have slipped to the wayside. It's not because of anal itself, it's just that now we can have that intimac...

Hi Krista, Maybe this is a "duh" question but have you tried a vibrator on your clit while having anal? This little trick turned my wife from being just OK with anal into the woman who has enjoyed over 20+ years of a loving anal only relationship. If you're not getting off during anal you are missi...

Spooning (on our sides), him at a slight angle away from me, shallow penetration (about 4" or so) and so that the head of his cock is aimed towards the top of my pelvis, he'll press against that wall of tissue between my vagina and rectum and if he angles right, hit one of the "legs" of my clit and ...

As an update, Friday night was not only an amazing success but it was a really intense and intimate affair. Again, this was far from our first time having anal sex but it was the first time in almost 18 months and it was the first time in a bit more than a year that we've had sex that didn't involve...

That's interesting—I don't really see ass to mouth as something cheap or dirty or demeaning at all, though certainly some porn can treat it that way (but certain porn can make any sex act seem that way, it all depends on how it portrays it). To me, ass to mouth is not at all something demeaning, bu...