I'll say again, xanthan gum is the best. It is incredibly slick, and you make it as thick or thin as you like. I've got tubes of KY that I'll never use again, since discovering xanthan. KY and Astroglide contain sodium hydroxide (read the ingredients), which is lye. Yes, lye.. in light concentration...

I was seriously thinking of ordering the Rentman XXXL, and darn the cost. Do you find the site reliably secure, and is the package sufficiently unidentifiable?

Anal only for 10 years, and no longer dependent on wife for sexual pleasure. I was a long time frustrated that she wouldn't share her body sexually any more. Now, I find it has proven self-empowering to be fully self-pleasuring

My wife was not into receiving anal, but didn't mind pegging. In fact she got rather much into it. For years, I'd finish off in her vagina after a long pegging session, and we both wound up happy. My big mistake was trying to talk her into receiving. That somehow led to a sexual disconnect between u...

Xanthan gum. You make the gel yourself. Super slick. Only damp washcloth needed for complete cleanup. It is sold as a food, so no toxicity concerns.

From a fellow anally fascinated male - Welcome!

Personally have never achieved complete hands-free.

I would never want to taste poop, or even a hint of it. On the other hand, having learned to properly douche my bum, I can know for a fact that at least 12 inches are clean as a china plate, for the duration of a 2 hr. extended session. I guess there's a lot of variety out there, and different folks...

The fact you are asking the question proves that whichever decision you make will be the right one for you.

More frequently now, I'm grateful that I don't have to worry about STDs, weird relationships, clandestine meetings or whatnot. The energy that I used to channel through my willie, now gets channelled into exercise and fitness. I pretty much feel I'm better off. And, if an opportunity ever does come ...

Probably everyone is busy making sure they're properly enjoying the onset of Summer.

I don't post anymore because my version of anal only is entirely unrepresented by any other members here.