No. I speak english and understand the concept of psychological abuse. And by the way, I agree about fantasy posts on this site. You'll be happy to know that I'm a real person with a real story. I'm sure all of your relationships are open, honest, full of meaningful discussion.... hell you probably ...

That last response sort of turned me off the site for awhile, but I'm back to explain. There are a thousand different ways that we deal with things in life and part of what I'm trying to explain here is that my wife actually loves anal. But her past upbringing makes her very reluctant to talk about ...

An update, and a question on this post. We've been doing vaginal on Sunday mornings for her as part of a kind of deal we struck and it's been working pretty well. Anal during the week and vaginal on sunday morning. For me I'd like us to be AO so I've been trying to cut little deals with her on Sunda...

Ok. I'm starting to feel like Dear Abbey, but I'm going with it. Reality, I support you, but go in with your eyes open. The age difference could cause you some problems, i.e. acceptance with his daughter, others, your friends, his long term commitment, etc. Not to say it won't work, but you should b...

Glad to hear it! I wish all humans happiness in life (ok, aliens too). Just go slow with where you want to go. Give it time. Be honest! Work into things. Consider long term (and long term may mean a monogamous relationship). As I'm sure you know, if it's worthwhile, then it's worth the time it's goi...

Ok. I'd like to be supportive here. But I have a concern. I've read your posts (anal gang bang on a table, fuck buddy, etc.), you just might want to consider that you're going to be too much or him (or anyone for that matter). I'm just saying. Maybe you should look at other ways to find guys. Seriou...

Ok. This is of sounds really interesting to me though I've never done it. I'd like to spoon with my wife and go as deep as i can, but then not stroke. I'd like to lay like that with her all night long, only stroking when necessary to keep hard, then try to go to sleep with her like this and finish i...

No. Not tmi. That's why I started this post. Everyone has a story, and at some level this story touches your heart. When i said ''wow'' it was just because your story was exactly what i was hoping people would share. What makes them human, and in this case AO.

Wow!

I recently posted my story on the site which got me thinking about other peoples stories. How did anal only start for you? Particularly couples. Slowly over time? Quickly? One sided idea, or mutual? Easy to work into it or hard? Tips for others?