Yeah, I expected a personal attack. You should focus on the substance of my message. I also wonder these days why I bother checking in. The site is becoming a refuge for incels and male supremacists. I'm not the only woman who has become uncomfortable here - you'll see lot of hints from other commen...

These posts don't deserve a reply. 'Bratty behaviour"? 'Mind fuckery'? You guys are simply misogynists unable to see emotional complexity.

Sheesh! Listen to your wife! If she doesn't want it, respect that. You'd be a fool to keep insisting. Anal isn't for everyone. In fact it is only a minority who enjoy it. If anal is SO important to you (yawn!) you should have sorted it before you got married. So, ffs, listen to her and respect her.

For me, quality of sex is better than quantity. If I'm taking a vigorous pounding in the arse, I don't want it to go more than a few minutes, ten tops. Who wants to be bruised in the behind and spend the next day hobbling and sitting on soft cushions? And that kind of pounding doesn't help me cum. O...

Yeah Paige, AO men are hard to find. So many guys claim they are interested in anal but when it comes to it they might put their cock in your arse for a minute or so and then want/ex[ect/demand to go vaginal (got a nasty infection from that once). I have found it is of benefit to be upfront about it...

It is clear to me that the reason this bothers you is that you secretly want your wife to cuck you and take her ex's dick in her butt again. You want to see her truly aroused, passionate and enjoying sex again. I suggest you ask her to invite him around and offer to clean her arse afterwards. I am s...

I think you have it th ewrong way around. The real question is how can your boyfriend give you the best anal possible.

xx Alicia

I have a strong preference for anal and before dating a guy, I let him know that is my orientation. This doesn't always work because some guys say they like anal but once we're in bed just give a few token thrusts in my bottom before going for my vag.

I have written a few on Literotica. You might want to check out:
https://literotica.com/s/buttfucked-twice-in-one-day

I'm an atheist so it kinda amazes me the mental contortions people go through to justify what they wanna do. If you like anal sex, or you wanna rim someone, or you wanna put toys in your butt - then just do it.