I started logging every time I have anal sex over a year ago so these numbers are not subjective but accurate. For 2023, my wife and I who are monogamous and have been anal only for over a decade had anal sex 177 times or about 3.4 times a week. The longest duration of sex was about 70 minutes and t...

Think about it this way- If a straight man were to approach anal sex as if the rectum was like a masturbation sleeve (or masturbation device), then he should have no problem having anal sex with a man or a woman. But many people have a hard time approaching sex in that way. If a straight man had ana...

I have had the same problem with water based lubes. When I started having anal sex with my wife thirteen years ago we realized that every water based lube we tried caused a burning pain in her ass and we would have to stop. We used various oil based and silicone based lubes, but we have always been ...