hey analonely, what you wrote was almost exactly what i went through with my wife. i noticed two things from the beginning. she seemed to have a "hang up" about anal so she couldn't talk about it but i also noticed that she really was turned on by anal play. after a bunch of starts and stalls i fin...

The longest I ever went w/o either since first starting masturbating at 13 was 6 weeks when I went to boot camp for the army. That's about the only time in my life I ever went that long w/o any kind of release after starting to do anything. I was still a virgin at the time as well.

Guy~ thanks for responding. It sounds as though your wife and I have the same problem. It's nice to know I'm not the only one ;) has she ever used plugs or dilators to train her ass? I am hoping that regular use of a plug will help open me and psychologically prepare me for him. Does she mention de...

My wife always has a lot of pain after she cums from anal as well. Just tell him to stop moving for a minute at that point to allow you to redjust. That's what we do, tho she still fears doing anal for that exact same reason, even tho she'll cum continuously after a while, but will wince and fear ab...

Alleesha wrote:can your girl clap?

Nah. she not that big either.

I am just not embarassed. I think some sisters are embarassed. I can tell you I know that at my church it is full of ho's that are fuckin in they booties...sometimes i'm sure right afterward. lol. dont get me wrong tho. I think my booty more like gabrielle union. It aint really small its more like ...

"Oh ok, so it was what I thought" Is there something wrong with that? Basically, for example when I have listened to a couple of my lady friends mad about that they wish they didn't have to do anal all the time or most of the time I just don't feel bad for them much because I love anal and I prefer...

Alleesha wrote:don't you think anal is the reight sex for black folks?? We put a lot of value in the big butt. and you said it yourself that "fucking the booty should be your highest praise, regard and enjoyment of it"

Oh ok, so it was what I thought, lol!

I answered your PM btw.

Those contractions aren't rare; they're also gone after a little while, so typically you'd be able to continue after a couple of minutes. Lovemaking is a mutual act , therefore, there can be NO concessions. What I mean by that is that it's not o.k. to make trade-offs, e.g. "I'll go down on you if y...

You say you like little bit bigger than medium? I am curious because you might maybe think my booty is the right size. I feel like it is not that big for a sister, but maybe you would think it is the right size. I normally compare it to Gabrielle union. What do you think? I just get uneasy about my...