Hi, been searching for personal stories on how to go deep and wide, more specifically the issues about it and what was done to overcome those issues but almost everything i find is the standard generalised talk like the need for lube, lots of lube, lots of patience, relaxation, cleanliness...why are...

J-lube?

Not tried that dildo and its out of my price range.

Got an issue with tense muscles in the rectum and sigmoid, the muscles doesnt relax like normal so it can sometimes take 10 minutes for an enema to start to flow and i can feel the sphincter in the sigmoid holding on to my double ended dildo when i take it out, i suspect its a long term effect of ib...

Hi, i got a double ended dildo 450x45mm which slides in fine about 32cm then it feels uncomfortable, not really tried to go any further since it doesnt bend well, today i tried my newest dildo which got a diameter of 50mm and it went in like 17cm and then it would not move any further. How do i move...

How do you prevent a butt plug from falling out when wearing it for hours?
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