My queen and I just had a discussion about how anal has affected he sexuality. She does not share your wife's view on being less feminine about taking me in her ass and not taking me in her vagina. Does your wife receive pleasure from anal? My wife agrees that once she worked past the fact that anal...

I have a wide hand so anal fisting is out. I can't even get a fist in her vagina. I Can see the attraction to it as my queen can take 4 fingers when her mood is right. All in all anal fisting is not for us.

Welcome, dirk. If she likes fingers or plugs in her arse then that's already progress. Is it perhaps that she is not yet comfortable with movement there yet but likes the feeling of being stretched a little? The unfamiliar feeling of something thrusting back and forth through the sphincter can caus...

There is some really dangerous @ bad advice in this thread. Oil (&coconut oil) — DO NOT USE WITH LATEX CONDOMS. Silicone Lube — safe for condom use. In fact, lubricated condoms use a touch of silicon lube. Silicon lube is ideal for anal sex. It doesn't wear out like oil and it doesn't dry out like ...

Coconut oil for us. My lady prefers it when going ATM

Perhaps the current butt plug isn't the right size. My queen had the same problem with her first plug, I think it was only a 1 inch diameter plug. It would come out all the time. I bought her a 1.5 inch by 3.5 inch long plug with a base. She hasn't had any issues with that plug or her 1.75 inch plug...

Most comfortable for her = laying on her back with me standing at the side of the bed.
Deepest for me = doggy unsure what it's best for her as far as deepest goes. I know missionary with her legs on my shoulders proves to be uncomfortable for her when I go deep

Well I live in Ontario...... and my name isn't Albert

Canassman wrote:

blizzak wrote:Go Canada! Knew there was more of us out there!

indeed there are!

More than you think

Does there have to be a reason for people to be AO? There doesn't have to be. But I for one was/am interested in exploring that. As most of us are in agreement that AO is our preference, does there really need to be a spoken acceptance for what we do as consenting adults. I do it because I enjoy it...