So it's not *exactly* anal, but if hygiene is a concern, you could go with the "hollow plug" route, but with a twist... buy one of the anal fleshlights, and cut it short enough to fit inside her vagina and then have sex with that... so it would look and maybe feel a bit like actual anal sex, but the...

Welcome and thanks for your story! It's good to know that caring and positive support can help someone overcome bad experiences. I'm curious to learn from your experience how to keep anal as something appealing to try.

Thanks for the welcome -- it's most appreciated to have somewhere to come and work through thoughts and how to say things without fear of judgement. It's been helpful to read what other folks have posted here in order to express myself to her. As for her sexual interest in general, we talk about it,...

34/M, and married for two years. I've always had an interest in anal, but have only met a couple women who enjoyed making it a regular part of our relationships, and none of those lasted. I ended up meeting a wonderful woman I fell deeply in love with, and thought we had a lot of potential for sexua...

New poster here, as well... hello all! And definitely wishing you the best! I'm in a similar situation to John above, and wish I'd had more encouragement and resources to understand my own feelings on the matter earlier. I always had a lot of luck with online dating, and I wonder what the risks and ...