There is such a gulf between women and men that I often think how do we ever manage to stay together? It's as much in the way we communicate as anything else. I'll go with the others who say to give it some time as it is still very early days and anything can happen. From my own experience I know th...

Beware though, a LOT of bullshit gets spewed and taken for granted on the internet. Just because some guy on the internet says so, doesn't make it so. Biggest case in point the vaccination debate. Anti-vaccination idiots continue to bring up a study that says there's a linkage between vaccination a...

Now that it has been some time, do you feel you've answered any of your own questions or that they are sill relevant? What does your husband think? I've answered some. I now realise that this isn't just a phase for him. We speak more easily and openly and he is very sure about this. His thoughts an...

I have ceased taking mine a few weeks ago as it no longer seemed necessary given that my chances of getting pregnant right now are probably infinitesimal. I hadn't read this post beforehand so it had no influence on my decision but it is looking like I made a sensible move. I hadn't read this anywhe...

It's interesting to see what others have to say on the subject. I would love to have a definitive answer. I'm not sure that pregnancy or avoiding it has anything to do with anal sex. The problem of birth control was solved decades ago, and other than the poor, uneducated or the young, most women are...

Uncertain i'm so pleased that you've made it this far with AO i knew you had it in you. From the way you talk and describe things i can tell you don't give up easily and you want to make everything better with your husband. Keep sticking with what you are doing. Like we all promised it does get eas...

Interesting discussion we got going here. In general, females are more fluid with sex, whereas males are more fixed. Which makes sense. Really? I'd say it is men that are always looking for novelty. And I believe that as a rule they are less invested emotionally in sex. You want to have anal daily,...

For those that have followed this far, we have continued to hold to our agreement. So far so good. I'm no longer getting that feeling of dread about what goes on in the bedroom and I've noticed how he's been making a real effort, or at least the appearance of it. Part of me still worries that now he...

I would say that you have an extremely accommodating and generous woman, who is clearly prioritising your needs over hers, despite the fact that she is also trying to hold together a stressful career and relationship. I will say this as kindly as I can, as many here have been so with me, that I see ...

The problem with direct chat is you have to have the right people around at the right time, and there is no historical reference for any discussions which can be helpful for others. From my own point of view, if I'm brutally honest, I'm not here to make friends or spend time on small talk. Nothing p...