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by uncertain
Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:33 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Feeling conflicted
Replies: 8
Views: 1767

Re: Feeling conflicted

There is such a gulf between women and men that I often think how do we ever manage to stay together? It's as much in the way we communicate as anything else. I'll go with the others who say to give it some time as it is still very early days and anything can happen. From my own experience I know th...
by uncertain
Wed Jul 18, 2018 9:16 am
Forum: Share
Topic: New study linking hormonal birth control and cancer
Replies: 11
Views: 1792

Re: New study linking hormonal birth control and cancer

Beware though, a LOT of bullshit gets spewed and taken for granted on the internet. Just because some guy on the internet says so, doesn't make it so. Biggest case in point the vaccination debate. Anti-vaccination idiots continue to bring up a study that says there's a linkage between vaccination a...
by uncertain
Tue Jul 17, 2018 7:23 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Questions
Replies: 37
Views: 4545

Re: Questions

Now that it has been some time, do you feel you've answered any of your own questions or that they are sill relevant? What does your husband think? I've answered some. I now realise that this isn't just a phase for him. We speak more easily and openly and he is very sure about this. His thoughts an...
by uncertain
Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:46 am
Forum: Share
Topic: New study linking hormonal birth control and cancer
Replies: 11
Views: 1792

Re: New study linking hormonal birth control and cancer

I have ceased taking mine a few weeks ago as it no longer seemed necessary given that my chances of getting pregnant right now are probably infinitesimal. I hadn't read this post beforehand so it had no influence on my decision but it is looking like I made a sensible move. I hadn't read this anywhe...
by uncertain
Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:41 am
Forum: General
Topic: My new theory on men and anal sex.
Replies: 19
Views: 4261

Re: My new theory on men and anal sex.

It's interesting to see what others have to say on the subject. I would love to have a definitive answer. I'm not sure that pregnancy or avoiding it has anything to do with anal sex. The problem of birth control was solved decades ago, and other than the poor, uneducated or the young, most women are...
by uncertain
Wed Jun 13, 2018 12:06 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Questions
Replies: 37
Views: 4545

Re: Questions

Uncertain i'm so pleased that you've made it this far with AO i knew you had it in you. From the way you talk and describe things i can tell you don't give up easily and you want to make everything better with your husband. Keep sticking with what you are doing. Like we all promised it does get eas...
by uncertain
Wed Jun 13, 2018 11:58 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Did I find a keeper?
Replies: 18
Views: 2434

Re: Did I find a keeper?

Interesting discussion we got going here. In general, females are more fluid with sex, whereas males are more fixed. Which makes sense. Really? I'd say it is men that are always looking for novelty. And I believe that as a rule they are less invested emotionally in sex. You want to have anal daily,...
by uncertain
Wed Jun 06, 2018 1:02 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Questions
Replies: 37
Views: 4545

Re: Questions

For those that have followed this far, we have continued to hold to our agreement. So far so good. I'm no longer getting that feeling of dread about what goes on in the bedroom and I've noticed how he's been making a real effort, or at least the appearance of it. Part of me still worries that now he...
by uncertain
Wed Jun 06, 2018 12:39 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Did I find a keeper?
Replies: 18
Views: 2434

Re: Did I find a keeper?

I would say that you have an extremely accommodating and generous woman, who is clearly prioritising your needs over hers, despite the fact that she is also trying to hold together a stressful career and relationship. I will say this as kindly as I can, as many here have been so with me, that I see ...
by uncertain
Sat May 26, 2018 6:36 am
Forum: Meta
Topic: Quiet times?
Replies: 8
Views: 1574

Re: Quiet times?

The problem with direct chat is you have to have the right people around at the right time, and there is no historical reference for any discussions which can be helpful for others. From my own point of view, if I'm brutally honest, I'm not here to make friends or spend time on small talk. Nothing p...