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by kokay
Wed Apr 24, 2019 9:41 am
Forum: Share
Topic: How does it make you feel?
Replies: 5
Views: 1980

Re: How does it make you feel?

Loved, sexy, special, vulnerable. Too many emotions to list. My husband has become more vocal and expressive, praise and such, since we moved to anal. I feel more comfortable in my self too but that could just be my body recovery post birth and pregnancy. Also a little bit of pride in that I can do ...
by kokay
Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:52 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Trying Anal Only
Replies: 3
Views: 836

Re: Trying Anal Only

I'm sad to read about the difficult time your wife has been through. I'm not there yet but I know how hard the menopause can be. There is not really a thing such as an easy menopause. It will change a woman's world, values and sense of identity. Even though she's experiencing a loss of libido I'm su...
by kokay
Sat Apr 20, 2019 2:37 pm
Forum: Share
Topic: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.
Replies: 8
Views: 1606

Re: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.

Glad to see you back. I had my fingers crossed hoping you would pull through. It's like many other women report, that suddenly (usually when they are a bit older) that something just switches on in their head about anal. Certain milestones appear to be the catalyst. You haven't mentioned you husban...
by kokay
Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:43 am
Forum: General
Topic: Ladies only
Replies: 5
Views: 3251

Re: Ladies only

I was really interested to read how we both share the experience of enjoying anal during our second pregnancies. I think I was much more anxious during the first and wasn't nearly so interested in sex during that. After the first few months we basically stopped though I did give my husband oral or h...
by kokay
Thu Apr 18, 2019 8:32 am
Forum: General
Topic: Anal and submissiveness
Replies: 6
Views: 2416

Re: Anal and submissiveness

I guess that I do have submissive tendencies. I'd not thought about it until reading this topic. But I do think most women are to some degree and we usually find a dominant or assertive man attractive.
by kokay
Wed Apr 17, 2019 9:22 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Gratitude
Replies: 5
Views: 1442

Re: Gratitude

I'm still newish to the forum, having discovered the "community" via tumblr. But likewise I found the positivity very helpful. It can be very lonely in isolation thinking you're on your own as a couple, and thinking this is unique to you.
by kokay
Wed Apr 17, 2019 9:03 am
Forum: Share
Topic: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.
Replies: 8
Views: 1606

Re: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.

Thinking more about our situation after posting yesterday I think for quite some time after baby #2 I was feeling very negative about everything. And I couldn't find any joy in anything. However, making the effort to bring our sex life back into focus and how anal had made us feel so connected, even...
by kokay
Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:18 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: How do you do it?
Replies: 8
Views: 1663

Re: How do you do it?

I would second the rimming. I much prefer it to me husband going down on me normally as that can often feel to much, if that makes sense. Rimming, on the other hand is both very relaxing and sensual. Even better my husband loves to do it and never wants to stop! It gets us both in the mood.
by kokay
Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:10 am
Forum: Share
Topic: Anal without clit stimulation
Replies: 13
Views: 4749

Re: Anal without clit stimulation

I can't orgasm without clitoral stimulation but that doesn't mean that it's always something we do. I don't like the idea of sex being like some check list. Personally, I can be just as happy with a long, slow session and can just enjoy the sensation of him inside me and the feeling of being so clos...
by kokay
Tue Apr 16, 2019 11:01 am
Forum: Share
Topic: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.
Replies: 8
Views: 1606

Re: Since last summer. Reconnecting, changes and thoughts.

Canassman it was like a had become a different person after the birth. I didn't like how I felt at all. During the pregnancy we had tried anal and both really liked it. I had I high sex drive nearly right up to the end of the third trimester. It was like we were two crazy teens all over again and co...