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by aredeejay3001
Thu Jul 25, 2019 6:10 am
Forum: General
Topic: Article in Savage Love
Replies: 1
Views: 740

Re: Article in Savage Love

I did see this Dan Savage post as I’m also a fan but I had not read through the comments until now. The overall sentiment is one I can definitely support in terms of “easing in” and leveraging trust in a relationship to try new things. It was a good 18 month path for me and my wife to cross over int...
by aredeejay3001
Wed Jul 17, 2019 11:17 am
Forum: Share
Topic: Anal opens us up to new adventures
Replies: 5
Views: 1968

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

Haven’t posted in a while but wanted to share a nice experience from last night. My wife and I haven’t fooled around in a while (kids not in school so they keep us up late, wife has been sick with a bad cold, etc.) but last night we wound up snuggled together, awake for once! We started just rubbing...
by aredeejay3001
Wed Jul 03, 2019 11:05 am
Forum: Challenges
Topic: Holiday challenge
Replies: 3
Views: 795

Re: Holiday challenge

I’m in a similar boat: we have three small kids, busy jobs and I started an evening MBA program last fall, so even if we find any time when the kiddos aren’t bursting in, we’re often exhausted. As I’ve detailed in my Introduction thread , my wife and I have added all things anal to our relationship ...
by aredeejay3001
Fri Jun 07, 2019 7:28 pm
Forum: Share
Topic: Anal opens us up to new adventures
Replies: 5
Views: 1968

Re: Anal opens us up to new adventures

We just finished a mini-vacation in the sun with the kiddos: nice big unit with separate bedroom for us. Finally got the kids down to sleep early enough one night to have some time to play. Overall our collective libidos are completely amped up! My wife and I snuggled up in bed and starting deeply k...
by aredeejay3001
Tue May 28, 2019 10:33 am
Forum: Share
Topic: Anal opens us up to new adventures
Replies: 5
Views: 1968

Anal opens us up to new adventures

I have a long detailed thread in Introductions that spells out how my wife and I have introduced anal play into our marriage over the last 18 months. We’ve crossed over into making anal a regular part of our sexual life and I couldn’t be happier. We forged ahead with a number of firsts again the oth...
by aredeejay3001
Mon May 13, 2019 7:32 am
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage
Replies: 14
Views: 3729

Re: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage

Ok, one last addendum. Things are happening so fast it’s hard for me to keep up with these updates. But this is a pretty significant cap to this thread. I have some more questions about where my wife and I go next, but I’ll try to break those out into new threads, maybe in the Advice area. So after ...
by aredeejay3001
Sat May 11, 2019 6:22 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage
Replies: 14
Views: 3729

Re: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage

Thanks Canassman , kingsman and analogue for your well wishes! Canassman , I’ve read through some of the posts from you and your wife and your strong commitment to open communication is evident. Communication and mutual pleasure are cornerstones to any deep connection, without doubt. kingsman in ter...
by aredeejay3001
Thu May 09, 2019 1:26 pm
Forum: Introductions
Topic: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage
Replies: 14
Views: 3729

Re: Introducing anal after 13 years of marriage

Long time since I’ve posted an update to my situation. I felt like I jinxed myself with my pronouncement of “anal in 2019” because it just wasn’t happening. We’ve been very busy -- I’ve started an evening MBA program, so it’s even more than just juggling life with jobs and 3 kids. But we’ve remain v...
by aredeejay3001
Wed Jan 09, 2019 5:26 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Your opinion about the best lube for anal play
Replies: 15
Views: 3623

Re: Your opinion about the best lube for anal play

As I spelled out in my introduction post ( https://www.analonlylifestyle.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=18630 ), my wife and I are on the cusp of finally having anal sex after introducing anal play into our bedroom activities in the last year. I've ordered Wicked Jelle lube based on reviews I've read and w...
by aredeejay3001
Tue Jan 01, 2019 8:15 pm
Forum: General
Topic: Age When You First Had Anal?
Replies: 74
Views: 32874

Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

I was 20 when I first had anal sex, with my then girlfriend of three years. She had graduated from our college one year ahead of me and was visiting me for a weekend in the fall of my senior year, so we were eager to get down to business. While we were having sex on the first day of her visit, we tr...