It all depends on the personality of the woman you are seeing. I think most of us have a fear of being judged negatively, so even if she is curious about it or is turned on by it, if she’s not comfortable she may respond negatively if asked. So it’s gaining trust, her comfort level, to at least talk...

I think it is a kind of chastity

I am a Leo

If I happen to one day summon the courage to bring up the topic to one of my friends, after maybe a glass or two of wine, I’ll let you know. But I’ll be honest, just imagining myself bringing up the topic to even the most open minded friend that I have, it causes me to blush strongly

Thank you analsexonly for the welcome, I’m feeling more and more comfortable leaving this up. I suppose I am drawn to the point of climax without pushing over so fast? I don’t really know how to describe it. The one I speak with is reinforcing th idea of abstaining from vaginal sex. And it is turnin...

I had to look up what groundhog was. To my slight embarrassment, I didn’t know what my favorite position was called, but now I do... I wish it were named something other than groundhog

Thank you, I honestly was thinking about deleting this if I can. Something about leaving my thoughts up like this is unnerving.

Hello, I honestly don’t know where to begin. I’ll be turning 52 in a couple months, I am married with three beautiful children who are all grown up (mostly). My husband suffers from health issues which results in practically zero intimacy for years. I masturbate often. I have confided in someone, an...