Are we in tune? I don't know, He does have a one track mind and I'm going along with it, although it is kind of exciting to do so. If it doesn't work out though...am I being unfair by giving him false expectations for the future? I don't think so - like you say, it is what it is, and for the moment...

I'm really pleased for you both. Sounds like you're really in tune with each other - if you're both enjoying the sex, then keep doing it, you needn't label it right away.

I've discussed it with him, because it really matters to me that he's on board and ok with it, and not just doing it to please me. It looks like he had a few issues about his masculinity if he was only doing anal, how it was going to affect me, and just the plain taboo of it. He has also gone on to ...

Well, from my perspective, there's definitely been a change with my fella. We're closer, and he is more in tune with my needs now than he was when we we would do vaginal. He still likes me to go down on him, but he's choosing anal with me over vaginal now. I'd say going anal only has really improved...

It was the fella's birthday last weekend. We went and had dinner with friends, carried on for drinks and went home, both feeling a bit naughty. Because of the special occasion, he asked if we could have sex vaginally 'for old time's sake'. Which we did, and frankly, the sex was pretty unspectacular....

Louise, it's hard to know what questions to ask because it's all so interesting. I would love to hear more about both your experience in convincing your partner to forego vaginal sex in your relationship together and your own personal reasons for desiring this. What drives it for you? For me the fa...

Well, what would you like to know?
I'd previously been in a relationship that became AO, and it was an amazing experience, something I wanted to have back in my life, with the man I'm presently with.
For me, it's a way of being much closer and more intimate with the man in my life.

Thanks gents :) The first AO relationship I was in was at his request, not mine, but it was beautifully intense and fulfilling. I've pretty much always played with my butt since I started masturbating, so I was quite aware of how I could take pleasure from anal penetration. Just took a little while ...

Hi all, Thought I'd finally say hello. I've been with my man for a while, and a couple of months ago, at my suggestion, we went anal only. I've been in a relationship that ended up being anal only before, and it was something I loved, something special. After some resistance to the idea, he's on boa...