Thanks. I’d say we’re well matched now but it took years to get to that place. We both had some growing to do, personally, before we were able to share deeply without shame or fear of rejection. It hasn’t always been easy, and there were dry spells for the usual reasons - kids, jobs, sometimes bored...

I’m a newbie to active participation in this community, but my wife and I are not new to anal. A little bit about us: We’ve been happily married for many years, and have enjoyed a robust and varied sex life for pretty much all of it. We consider ourselves blessed in this regard; over the years, we’v...