Jersey Shore, a little south of Gunnison Beach!

Thanks, Colt - that’s all really helpful guidance, especially about the water-based lube. And I agree about the UTI risk - other than some light, pre-penetration teasing, I’m always cognizant of/careful about going from her asshole to her vagina. While I’m the Dom, Sher and I are in a committed rela...

Thanks everyone for the feedback and the kind words of welcome! This is all helpful - although I meant “natural” as in lubricants made by the human body. Sher does ass-to-mouth (she claims she doesn’t like it but I believe she secretly does - we’re a D/s couple) and I don’t want to obscure the taste...

Hi Colt, thanks for your thoughtful reply. Sher and I are both divorced single parents so I totally get the “kids finding out” thing. I have a drawer next to my bed that would probably shock my kids if they ever went through it! (And you made me laugh with the grandpa/grandma anal freaks comment, lo...

Hi all, we are a M/f and D/s couple from New Jersey, aspiring to be anal only. I’m 51, she’s in her early 40’s, and while we’re not new to anal, the AO lifestyle is pretty intriguing to us from multiple perspectives. Looking forward to learning more and gaining insights from other members’ experienc...