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by Sarah1981
Thu Dec 15, 2022 1:00 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

Oh, honey…bitter? Darling, I’m not the one who spent half my life with someone who cheated on me for 14 months. That’s YOU. My husband is deeply in love with me, and I am with him. By the way, I just realized you’re the one who wrote that disturbing comment we were all talking about. I’ll post whate...
by Sarah1981
Thu Dec 15, 2022 9:02 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Meeting people interested in an anal only relationship
Replies: 42
Views: 120527

Re: Meeting people interested in an anal only relationship

If she was into SM, I am not I could get into this... So basically we all have limit. I can understand her limit is there. She accepted to try. Once. It didn't work, and she prefers to quit trying. That's her choice, and even with my long-time effort (we're together since 4 years), I couldn't convi...
by Sarah1981
Thu Dec 15, 2022 7:06 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Meeting people interested in an anal only relationship
Replies: 42
Views: 120527

Re: Meeting people interested in an anal only relationship

I have a unique ability to get girls to try anal, many times even the first time we have sex. The key is verbal. Once you have started, and they are hot, tel them they are dirty get a little rough. Hands lightly around there neck as if to choke. A little hair pulling. Once they talk back and get in...
by Sarah1981
Wed Dec 14, 2022 12:33 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

How can you say “don’t make assumptions” and then go on to boldly claim that it’s indeed a loss of interest that’s the root of the problem. LMAO. He IS an asshole to manipulate or pressure his wife into doing anal when she so clearly does not want to do it. Even if she previously did, their lives co...
by Sarah1981
Wed Dec 14, 2022 12:11 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

It IS all on him… He posted saying he wants to go AO with his wife of 17 years, and then went on to describe her lack of enthusiasm with it. “She seems less interested in anal” “I get a phoned in response when we do anal” And then described her just wanting to get it over with. Every mention of anal...
by Sarah1981
Wed Dec 14, 2022 10:25 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

Yes!!! The couples with the best sex lives view sex as something they share and enjoy TOGETHER. Every time. Sex is something you do WITH another person. Its not an individual act. It’s a dance. If you can tune into pleasuring your partner and they do the same, sex becomes this incredible experience ...
by Sarah1981
Tue Dec 13, 2022 2:40 pm
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

Great feedback/response! I was disturbed by that comment as well. I’m in the position as the OP. I like anal sex more than my husband. He doesn’t mind it as a novelty here and there but I absolutely love it. The thing is - I love him more than any one sex act we do together and our sex life is rich!...
by Sarah1981
Tue Dec 13, 2022 10:49 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

@Colt1911: Sadly we have been off the pill since our first child who is now 7. I wish that was the simple answer. We currently use condoms when it is a pussy month. Which makes it even lesss fun for me :( However it is an ass month right now so anyone have advice on how to make it extra good for he...
by Sarah1981
Tue Dec 13, 2022 10:10 am
Forum: Advice
Topic: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there
Replies: 25
Views: 6134

Re: Want to go AO but not sure how to get there

As a woman and a former stay at home mom, I’m going to be frank and tell you that the things you listed are no where near half the household load of responsibility. I’d encourage you to Google ‘The Mental Load’ and get a better understanding of all the invisible work your wife does and try to step i...