I'm certainly happy with the forum rules. As I said, it guarantees a safe place to read (despite the profile pic :D ). Onlyfans is a platform to sell content, wanted to know about a community of common interests. I created a fetlife account, but I confess that I found the site extremely difficult t...

Be careful you're not being pushed or manipulated into a lifestyle you don't want. It sounds like you're doing this for your boyfriend and I think you should consider if this is what you truly want and/or are okay with

Thank you for responding. I kind of feel silly/embarrassed asking these questions, since so many here seem to really have experience…and I definitely don’t. I’ve thought about trying with my fingers or something like you recommended, but then I psych myself out, and then get anxious followed by gui...

I wanted to chime in and add that my interest in ass and anal sex predates my interest in vagina and vaginal sex. I was incredibly young when I first started being head over heels for ass. My mom use to tell a story of me pausing movies on vhs to look at the women's bottoms. I thought about the idea...

I wish I could relinquish you of your guilt @AmyCurious and you could fully enjoy your curiosity and discover what fulfills you most

Yeah, I may never have found an anal loving female, but I've found plenty of anal hating females sadly

Honestly, this is the first time I've ever had someone validate my pain like that. It's not pleasant to have lived it, but it's reassuring other's have experienced it too. Slightly less alienating. I too am not interested in men. I feel bad and worried about not being sexually fulfilling; I get arou...

I'm a cishet male in my 30s and I live in Montana. I consider my interest in ass and anal sex to be incredibly strong - I definitely describe it as a fetish. I have Complex PTSD and I find life with a fetish to be kind of alienating. I've never found a partner who wanted to have anal sex as much as ...