Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic @Rimmer . I don't have any answers, When I started the discussion I was just speculating on why the average person hasn't heard of anal-only or adopted the lifestyle. I've noticed that many discussions here quickly diverge from the topic as there is som...

9 years of AO and we r happily committed to our relationship and sex life. It was probably stories like yours a few years back that inspired me. Couples like you were showing what was possible if we took it slow and steady. I spent the longest time giving my girlfriends anus so much love and attent...

I need to feel she wants to be taken That's the real point. Is not to do it, but to feel both wants it, with no word, just eye crossing, just with the face expression, to know each other haves the same idea in the mind. Of course I'd love to see her spicy and playing with the idea of anal, teasing ...

@semi-normal What changed for you at 52? Better late than never, but something must have happened? Something happened alright. This woman has a beautiful ass and one day during lovemaking it just dawned on me - why can't I love her ass too? I asked her if she'd like to try and she agreed; it lasted...

Ya Chris, you are lucky, anal vs. dirty talk is a no brainer...
Enjoy while you can, life is short...

Good question as to why so little awareness. Perhaps we will never know...
In my case it is because I'm an ignoramus. As a straight male I always loved a beautiful ass and watched them whenever in view; I never knew I could love it, until I was 52. It has changed my life.

Great stories from Colt and Rimmer and congratulations on your success. Mine is still a bit of work in progress as we are not AO and probably will never be, but including anal in almost every session is awesome so I cannot complain. She is reserved by nature but has made efforts to be open minded wi...

@switch_dude maybe some of the women on the forum will chime in and provide advice. From my perspective, I believe you should let her know how important this is for you. Maybe she had a bad previous experience trying anal. You mentioned she likes to touch her hole. During your talk, tell her you’ll...

My girl is a bit like this. We love each other and want to do things for each other even if it is not our first choice. She is open to anal because she knows I love it and now enjoys it because I do. Frankly, it is the thing that has brought us closer than ever and perhaps that is part of the reason...

My girl is concerned about this so she always cleans just before the fun begins. Years ago she would bathe but now it is just a quick shower. No time of day per se, just the regular procedure. Like many women I suspect, she is concerned about "residue", which does not concern me at all. As long as s...