I think it's in a way natural to become more submissive when being fucked in the ass regularly. After all, it requires a lot of letting go and trust from the bottom towards the top, in this case, from the woman towards the man. A deep relaxation of otherwise tight musculature. So why shouldn't this...

No way for us either. Enjoying oral on her and her on me is a big part of our lovemaking and I cannot imagine living without it. Her pu**y is included but I started rimming her years ago because I adore her ass and she was just so so about it; now she loves it as much as I do.

Pan,
Please, please read through this forum; it is how we all learn.
Yes, go VERY slow and tease her in all ways, including her ass, and you will be rewarded.

@Backdoorlover if he doesn’t use lube and take a little time to warm her up, he runs the risk of her rejecting anal entirely. Lube is a must for those new to anal. Even after years of anal only, we still take the time to enjoy a little anal play. Totally agree with this. When we keep our lover's ne...

Prefer anal definitely but we are not anal only, perhaps one day...
As I have said (and others), it has improved our relationship immensely.

Yes, totally felt like "coming out". I've learned to be accepting of myself and my preferences, what a relief. My partner has too which is also a big relief. Yeah, I agree with both of those statements. But of the two, I'd say when my girlfriend finally accepted and stopped making any comment at al...

We always use coconut oil and a plug for warm up, and then used to use more oil before penetration, but over time have found this second application unnecessary.
It is my understanding the rectum does have a mucous but the anus does not, so a bit in the beginning helps.

I’ve dealt with 3 women who did anal, but they were all very different. My first wife wanted to do anal because I was so fond of it. She wanted to give it to me. But… at the best we did it only once a month. So she couldn’t really addapt her asshole to more and better anal sex. No matter how I trie...

Have not tried this yet partly because we love coconut oil. We use the regular (organic) type which is very inexpensive and is solid above 75 degrees Fahrenheit. But just put it in your hands or anywhere else and it will melt. We also use fractionated coconut oil which is always liquid. Great for th...

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic @Rimmer . I don't have any answers, When I started the discussion I was just speculating on why the average person hasn't heard of anal-only or adopted the lifestyle. I've noticed that many discussions here quickly diverge from the topic as there is som...