Yes I do have an update. Regarding the bratty behavior. There is definitely something to be said that my (and I'd probably argue most) wives prefer a dominant male. But our relationship isn't the type where she'd be ok with me outright controlling her and forcing something on her (her sister in law...

My opinion of course but maybe few responses because it does not sound loving. Anal has changed my life in a very positive way. Call me a softy or whatever, but I am not that way by nature. Anal has made me more aware, considerate, grateful...it is a deeper thing, so I do not like harsh language and...

Correction, I should have written "enjoyed" anal sex, rather than "had" anal.
I am speaking from my experience as I am happy and walk with a spring in my step after enjoying anal with my girl. She does too.

It is quite obvious really. If you see a person smiling, happy and walking with a spring in their step, they've had anal.

We are definitely closer and bonded more deeply than ever because of anal and we have talked about it and agree. I did not say I "love" her more, but perhaps it is the same thing.
It has changed our lives in a positive way and we do say, "I love you" more.

Anal is so intense and magical that it makes me feel like I'm touching her soul. Naturally it makes me incredibly confident and grateful. A person cannot be happy without gratitude.

My girl is a strong independent woman in life, but is submissive in the bedroom (as I think most women are). I am trying to lead her slowly but surely, into the AO lifestyle. It will be difficult as she loves PIV and squirts very well. She "accommodated" me at the beginning but is now enjoying it a...

Sheesh! Listen to your wife! If she doesn't want it, respect that. You'd be a fool to keep insisting. Anal isn't for everyone. In fact it is only a minority who enjoy it. If anal is SO important to you (yawn!) you should have sorted it before you got married. So, ffs, listen to her and respect her....

backdoorlover is experienced in this area and his guidance is wise. I too advise you to go very slow on each session and progress in very minor ways until her body anticipates the touch and finally penetration. Over time my girl and I learned to love rimming (me to her only) and it is now 100% regu...

My girl always cleans the exterior but not inside and it suits us both as I love to rim her and is the first thing I do generally. Naturally she does not want poop involved, but it happens sometimes during penetration and is no big deal, especially if I just take care of it discreetly afterwards and...