Welcome! While I would say the majority of men either prefer, enjoy or would like to try anal sex if they haven't already, there still are quite a few guys who aren't interested for a variety of reasons, including misconceptions about safety, cleanliness, comfort or (most ridiculously) whether it ma...

I certainly wouldn't call it abusive unless it is coerced. But a prenuptial agreement is a contract, and contracts are legally void if there was any coercion involved. A contract requires the consensual agreement of all parties involved.

I can see some people in certain types of relationships being interested in doing this, but it's probably not for most and doesn't really appeal to me. There is a certain amount of (consensual) denial by a partner that appeals to me, but that's more at the level of simply verbal denial or a chastity...

Most women just don't gape except right after anal. Unless you're using huge (larger than the average penis) dildos and butt plugs all the time , your ass is going to tighten up again pretty quickly. I do find gapes very appealing, however, especially after sex in a sort of "I did this" way, but the...

Indeed, the No Vagina tumblr's description begins: "Photoshopped images…" Vaginal chastity piercings (and belts) are fairly rare in practice but seem a fairly common fantasy. I suspect it's one that many women do not and will not act on, but some do and when it works out they tend to love the pierci...

Welcome. You're certainly not going to find people urging you to give vaginal sex a try here. Sometimes, for people new to anal and curious about doing more of it or trying to transition into anal only, we may recommend anal play during vaginal, etc., to aid in the transition, but if someone is alre...

Certainly heard of it, but never encountered anyone other than porn stars who have done it. (Not that I've encountered porn stars…)

Regarding your husband's concern about becoming loose: anal training, done correctly with proper warmup, strengthens the anal sphincter, rather than weakening it. It is possible in some extreme cases to cause damage that weakens the sphincter, but this is uncommon and can be avoided by warming up to...

/r/sex is a pretty sex positive community in general, supportive of anyone's personal sexual preferences and very, very opposed to slut/kink shaming. Lots of good people there, many of whom adore anal sex.

Congrats! That's awesome.

I'd start by trying to go straight to anal occasionally, and if that is a repeated success, try an anal only weekend sometime.