Backdoorlover wrote: ↑

Fri Feb 16, 2024 5:31 am

I don’t know. It’s not simple to say in a conversation that we’re anal only.

But why would you ever need to? What people do online and IRL are different. I'm talking about visibility on the internet, not trying to make conversation with colleagues or friends. That would be super awkward.

I hope we don't kick off a lube war. People can get very passionate about their lubes being the "one, true lube"

I can see why lifestyle is useful for branding and maybe making anal only more friendly to the curious but I'm not sure it helps with people finding this place. It wouldn't be a word most people trying to understand their preferences would ever use. I'm no expert on how the search engines rank sites...

Welcome to the forum. 8 years is a long time. Do you mind me asking how you found this place?

Second wife (3rd GF) I noticed I preffered her asshole over her pussy. But she was pussy oriented. It's sad that some women can't appreciate that their man adores their asshole and run with that. What could have been an opportunity to learn together and build an intense personal connection is wasted.

I was recently reading a post on the blog: https://www.analonlylifestyle.blog/2023/01/22/femininity-is-not-defined-by-vaginal-sex/ I can't think of anything more feminine than seeing a woman having anal sex or the idea of a woman accepting her man's penis buried deep in her anus. It took my girlfrie...

TelJ2003 The thing is, finding the forum can be hit and miss, depending on what search terms you use. Sure, it does turn up in search results but only if you already know what you're looking for. Sounds like you were lucky. For example, if you search something like "vaginal sex unsatisfying" or "I ...

Sorry, yes vanilla AO that is also a way to go. AO as a lifestyle and all our individual kinks are just that, our individual kinks not to be reflected or confused as being a prerequisite for being AO. Yes, I see that, The difference as I see it, is that anal-only ("vanilla" as you call it) is somet...

Backdoorlover it makes all the difference when they understand. I've noticed with some women that they think men are just about cumming and not into the whole experience. They assume they are the only ones to feel that way, that it's a feminine thing. As an example, I love when my girlfriend sucks ...

Yes, totally felt like "coming out". I've learned to be accepting of myself and my preferences, what a relief. My partner has too which is also a big relief. Yeah, I agree with both of those statements. But of the two, I'd say when my girlfriend finally accepted and stopped making any comment at al...