Female orgasms may not be necessary for procreation, but I would argue there's more going on in us as a species than simple mechanical biology. Human beings are social creatures by design, and thus, both social bonds and communication is incredibly important to us and our evolution. Both the group o...

Hi Loes, and welcome to the forum! Enjoy your time here!

Check out AlexBreeCooper, she's amazing.

I would recommend reading "Anal pleasure and health" by Jack Morrin, who is himself a medical doctor and has studied the subject intensively. His conclusion is the same as those mentioned here: When practised safely, anal sex does not increase the risk of incontinence. What one must keep in mind is ...

Ah, I had somewhat suspected you guys might be involved with each other. Good for all of you!

As for the initial question in this thread, I'd just ignore it and not feed the troll.

What works well for me is kegel exercises in general, to get a feel and control over my pelvic floor, and during sex itself, to consciously relax those muscles with each out breath. Works great!

Welcome to the forum. Fellow German here. Feel free to browse and contribute and share, there's no offense in being who you are.

That sounds great! So I take it everything is back to normal (or better) after the BBL?
Give my regards to Mrs. Backdoorlover!

I never felt comfortable with vaginal sex, there was something that never completely pleased me, I didn't understand it, when I started practicing anal sex I realized that I didn't like vaginal sex, I didn't achieve the same pleasure and I didn't reach orgasms. Like I got them with anal sex, then I...

I'm curious, so a question for those to whom virginity is an important concept: Does a *guy* lose his virginity when he has anal sex with a girl? Or does he need to have vaginal sex for it to count?