I think a lot of men's perceptions are skewed because its likely that the only women they have encountered that are interested in anal have a kink for being submissive. While I think an assertive woman that likes it in her butt is hot, I certainly have not encountered such a woman in real life. Ano...

I honestly don’t see where you get the idea all anal loving women are submissive. My girlfriend has a dendency to act submissive while having sex, it’s part of giving in and putting her full trust in me. But she is - by far - not a submissive woman. You should see her when we have a fight 😆 So tell...

The problem you're describing is a common one. As a man, I encounter it in all kinds of spaces dedicated to anal sex, but it also pops up when it comes to BDSM and (a bit less buttcentric) when people discuss polyamory. There seems to be this often unchallenged idea that "being penetrated" = "submi...

I feel similar as a male that was definetly attracted to girls but the sight of the vulva just did not activate anything in me. However their buttholes looked incredibly sexy to me. I thought something was wrong for me because every other male my whole life was always talking about how amazing puss...

I am late 30s F and it goes like this for me personally.... I started masturbating at a very early age and already from my early teens I was pleasuring myself anally with little things like pens, brushes etc... I guess everyone has been there one way or another... my first anal experience was amazin...