So I said in my intro post that I basically can't have vaginal sex due to a medical issue, so I need some advice as far as dating and sex. How should I bring up the idea that vaginal sex is not going to happen? When should I bring it up? The first time you have sex. I can't think when else would be...

Leakage? Diarrhea? No. Wet farts and a little gas sometimes yes. Sometimes a little more urgency for the bathroom the following morning. Nothing that's ever been the cause of any serious inconvenience or embarrassment. But you know, this is sex and you get fluids and such so no surprise. In answer t...

I've not been back to the forum in months, but now have a little news that those following my posts. In the end things didn't work out with the new guy and we've gone our separate ways. It was possibly partly a mistake on my part and looking back and being honest I'm just not ready for such a long t...

This is interesting to me because I do feel a change in the sensations when he goes deeper. I actually find it less stimulating than around the anus but often very calming and relaxing. Deeper penetration is something I need to work up to slowly, and a gentle and considerate lover whom I trust usual...

Robert wrote:Welcome back!

Does he know how lucky he is?

I remind him daily. I hope that he appreciates the whole though, and not just my anus, pretty and pink though it may be.

I personally use a (non-perfumed) moisturizer daily. As much because I shave there as for my anus, though that doesn't hurt given the frequent traffic through there. I like to keep things supple and soft.

Okay, so he's not the new guy anymore. I should start a new topic but perhaps it's better to keep these experiences in one place. I haven't visited here in so long; I meant to update this but as ever there is always something else to do. Truthfully, there has been little change so no real incentive ...

Is sounds like you two have an amazing bond, I bet sex has been intense since you committed to AO. Yes we do. But I think that would have been so AO or not. You can't have a great relationship without good sex, but good sex doesn't make a great realtionship. And by the way, we've been AO more or le...

myttia wrote: Does it preclude clit stimulation too?

Errr, why would it? Clit stimulation feels pretty damn good.

I should say, I do, and have done anal without, and it in itself is still a a pleasure, but I like to cum too.

I love hearing your updates prettypink. And I'm very pleased that you appear to have arrived at the decision you feel is the right one for yourself (and him). I have a great interest in how and why people find themselves wanting AO, so I'd be keen to hear more about his background and feelings if h...