You could be right. I think this has happened when we've been going a while. Can't wait to try this again tonight!

I know with anal sex there is a small chance of getting a UTI, usually more likely for the female. I'm just curious what the chances are for the male. The reason I ask is that early on when we had anal is was always very careful to wash after but now we have more anal than vaginal and nothing ever h...

I've read a few posts about these "valves". I think I may have found them but not 100% sure. It does get a little tighter when I go very deep, but only when i enter her from behind. But not every time. How would I know? And how can I make this happen more often? My girl is also on the small side....

Hello futon. Like marcus says, you're doing good with the frequency of sex. I guess once a week anal for most people isn't bad, but why have that if you can have anal only all the time. I reckon you'll have results with those plugs you ordered. My girlfriend was quite excited by the idea, as to her ...

LuvMyWifesAss wrote: That's one of my favorite videos to illustrate how things are connected and the intricate part the anus plays in orgasms.

Almost like her anus is desperate for something to grip onto! Got any more of those to share?

So the plug wasn't to stretch, but to arouse? With my girlfriend after she has had a plug in for a while and then removed it I know that it then feels very "empty" to her and then wants something back in there to feel normal again.

Thanks for the support and advice marcus and luvmywifesass. I'll take on board what you and the others have said. The positive reinforcement makes sense and is something I can work on. To a degree I think i'm already doing that but at a subconcious level, but now that you've brought it up I can real...

I hope you manage to up the frequency of sex. I know everyone is different, but once a week has got to suck. Is it possible you've found the key with the plug? MY girlfriend was really into hers for a while (well we both were) but we've not used them nearly so much. Was it comfortable for your wife ...

In my opinion anal sex should be slow and deep, not fast I couldn't agree more. And given that the anus is much more stimulating than the vagina there isn't the need for speed. I find that internally its like its more complex inside unlike the simple tube of the vagina, that grips in different ways...

Try to be comprehensive and not to push her too far too quickly. That was my piece of advice ;) Agreed. That's the last thing I want to do as I absolutely want this to work I was unsure because I couldn't tell from the way she said it if she meant it in the "everyone says you shouldn't have too muc...