My 2 cents is that you should reconsider coconut oil. The better, more refined brands don't smell like coconut at all in my experience. The less refined stuff is fine in the kitchen, but I prefer Spectrum Organic Extra Virgin coconut oil in the bedroom.

anal isn't a critical thing for either of you?

No, we were amazing before and I'm sure our relationship would continue to be amazing without it.

You are certainly correct in that there are plenty other places to discuss kinks and I do understand your concerns. The concern that some AO couples may be uncomfortable here because of these other topics is valid. I'll have to disagree though, in that I expect partner sharing/open sexual relationsh...

Hub and I are not AO but we're A-frequent. He's happy with whatever is available, but I know he prefers anal. He definitely responds to the increased intimacy but also feels a sense of power/conquest.

Personally, I love it when a girl will let me bend her over and pop my dick in and out of her ass ring until she cries. Lol! See, Marquis, there's that freak camp I was referring to. :lol: You're frightening the normals. ;) There's definitely an audience for anal sadism, but I don't think that's th...

My 2 cents, since I feel bad for abandoning conversations.... :oops: I do agree that there's really only so much that can be said. For the most part, any time i have a response to someone's post, someone else has already said it. I guess I do consider AO kinky (but not deviant) and as such, I would ...

Hi Marcus,
When the intention is for me not to orgasm, I don't use additional stimulation.
Even when I do, though, it's difficult to orgasm.

Mr.Williams.Wife

Thanks everyone.
I know the types of submissives you speak of, but I am not one. I don't feel undeserving.
I just enjoy the denial.

Hi hi! I've been reading here for about two months. For me, the idea of AO is very intriguing, but primarily as it relates to my kinks. I am sexually submissive to my husband and anal a) is more intimate, b) makes me more vulnerable and c) supports the practice that his sexual gratification is the p...