One idea that I think is really hot, and related to AO, is the idea of (temporarily) closing off access to a woman's vagina with piercings. This page http://vaginalchastity.tumblr.com/ has a lot of great pictures showing what I mean. I can't imagine a sexier way for a woman to signal her commitment ...

It's unfortunate the poster deleted his posts, but it's within his rights to do so and we can't second-guess his reasons. I see these forums as a way to promote mutual understanding. If something is shocking to me in what someone has posted, I really want to rush to understanding and not rush to jud...

I think you're asking a great question. Sex is about both partners being satisfied. Speaking personally, my wife and I don't see AO as any sort of goal right now. My wife orgasms from vaginal sex combined with a (strong) vibrator. So we do that -- and for reasons I've explained elsewhere I wear a co...

We was willing to... but we had other troubles. Now we have broken up. I'm back to be a single man :( after 4 years and half of relationship Sorry to hear about your breakup. Personally I don't see how people ever make long distance relationships work, especially in the early stages. Maybe this is ...

I'll just chime in with what everyone else is saying -- love the forum! I'm learning a lot and it's a big inspiration to learn from the experiences of others.

Personally I wouldn't have much use for chat. I wouldn't be opposed to it, I'd just end up ignoring it.

Like you Robert I don't think my wife and I are quite there yet. It's still a fair bit of preparation and she feels sore the next day. (I'm not complaining! My wife is amazing and as I said in another thread, anal is the only condom-free sex I get.) Reading the experiences of others who are farther ...

My wife sometimes gets little micro-tears in the tissue around her anus after we have sex. It doesn't seem to matter how slow we go, how much stretching we do, or how much lube we use. The tears are very small (they never bleed) and they go away after a few days. She has dry skin in general so it ma...

I am not religious any longer, but I was raised in a very religious family in the US and attended church every week growing up. The sense I got is that anal sex is not considered a sin between man and woman, but it is considered a sin between two men. I don't know to what extent this position is jus...

Brazil is a great data point. I've heard that anal sex is quite common there but I hadn't made the connection to the Catholic church. I think it would be in many ways ideal for a woman to be introduced to penetrative sex first through anal. Following the "traditional" route (vaginal, then anal later...

I agree, it's a major turn-off when a woman starts playing with her clit and vagina during the act. She should keep her hands away and concentrate on the sensations in her bottom. I don't mind if my wife wants to masturbate at other times.