I really like the B Vibe toys. They aren't the cheapest but the quality stands out easily for me versus cheaper things. The shape of the plugs are designed for long use and very comfortable, and work up from 1 all the way to 7. I started with the 2 myself and am now on the 5. Their vibrating toys a...

I meant the awareness around the anal-only lifestyle, not just anal sex in general. I'm sure that's common these days. Just wondering if people are feeling on their own wanting this because they never found information like is found on this forum or the blog. It would never have occurred to me to b...

@Backdoorlover if he doesn’t use lube and take a little time to warm her up, he runs the risk of her rejecting anal entirely.

Lube is a must for those new to anal. Even after years of anal only, we still take the time to enjoy a little anal play.

Ambalam plugs can help but I’d recommend using lube until she has more anal experience. A good water based lube or coconut oil should work. If she’s new to anal, I recommend you spend some time pleasuring her hole with tongue, fingers, and small toys. Even though it’s been years since we started ou...

Lubrication during anal is a personal preference. When we first started anal sex, we used a ton of lube. I even bought a lube shooter (like a syringe) and squeezed lube into her ass. It helped in the beginning but we quickly learned too much lube mutes the feeling that makes anal sex pleasurable. Fi...

ChrisW I feel the same way. I’m sure all of it is in my mind, but my orgasms are many times stronger than with vaginal or oral sex. Anal also drives me to penetrate her as deep as I can. We find we get the deepest penetration with her on her back at the corner of the bed with her legs pulled back. ...

We just use lots of saliva. Just need to add it bit more now and then during sex. Recently, I haven’t even used saliva when penetrating her ass. We both love the “struggle” of slow strokes until I fully penetrate her ass. It’s a much different sensation with much more friction. You MUST do this slo...

Agree with everyone else here about the intimacy. I know it sounds funny but when I'm inside her both my girlfriend and I have this sense that we were always meant to be joined this way. It is almost at times like a spiritual experience and I never felt as elated as after cumming in her ass. I wrot...

@ChrisW welcome back to the forum. Hope you share your experiences and advice with us.

Backdoorlover yeah, they aren’t cheap. I bought the XXL for half price. Rosebuds has sales on items with cosmetic flaws but I couldn’t find anything wrong with the one we received. These are made of body safe surgical stainless steel. Some of the less expensive, plated plugs can leach metal into th...