Real gapes aren't so much the result of a loose anus but a relaxed one, and the gape is the result of good muscle control. So a good gape is almost always something that will by definitely easily close back up shortly after, because it's consciously being "held open" that way.

Hello and welcome. I've moved your post to the Introductions forum, just FYI. It seems that it's not at all uncommon for women with vaginismus to somewhat naturally drift to anal sex as an alternative, and often to become anal only. It's quite a logical alternative when vaginal sex in comparison is ...

It's not too uncommon a pair of fetishes, though it doesn't appeal to everyone. Receiving anal with a full bladder at the right angle can result in semi-uncontrolled urination due to pressure on the bladder. Some "anal squirting" porn seems to really be the result of this phenomenon.

https://36.media.tumblr.com/97f08ae93911b1bffb7c4f83b39ea198/tumblr_nw6h2vGmBi1rmsj5po1_540.png It's the third annual No Pussy November! Starting in 2013, this loosely organized introductory anal only "event" has been responsible for a number of couples deciding to go anal only and having more plea...

There is a relatively new anal only porn actress, Kylie Sinner, who has a similar condition: extreme vaginal tightness and muscle spasms, resulting in pain and an inability to have vaginal sex. She has said that early on, she would let guys try very briefly to get it in her pussy, knowing they would...

I just found out about Kylie Sinner, a new porn actress who just started in the industry a few month ago and who is anal only and a vaginal virgin. Unlike Aurora Jolie, who was saving her vaginal virginity for marriage, Kylie suffers from vaginismus or a similar condition, resulting in extreme tight...

Welcome, and thanks for sharing! Can you expound more on your theory about your body type being a factor in your preference for anal? I'm not sure I fully understand.

Welcome, and thanks for sharing! As an anal-obsessed guy myself, it often seems inconceivable to me that women can have a hard time finding men who want to have anal sex with them, but I do hear similar stories quite often. I'm glad you were able to find someone compatible with you needs.

Welcome! Always glad to hear from people who get inspired to try it based on the experiences posted here.

They do exist, sometimes merely because they prefer anal stimulation and penetration with toys, and other times as part of a dom/sub relationship.