Sounds like you found a good outlet. I would never make any judgement about someone having an affair as I am certainly no paragon of virtue. But I learned a long time ago to be honest in my relationships and up front say that I am non monogamous. Fortunately my current wife and lovers over the last ...

Welcome Alleesha. Hope you enjoy the conversations here. I have not dated any AA's but did date several black women while I lived and worked around Africa and recall at least one who loved anal. But will be keen to hear your perspective and thoughts.

All good points above. I would add a couple of things...first the heat. I find being inside a woman's ass is really 'hot' in terms of body heat, compared to a vagina. That combined with the tightness I find makes it really pleasurable. Additionally, my penis is a bit over 7 inches and a bit thicker ...

I have dated women who were ten years older than me and 20 years younger. My wife now is 14 years younger than me. When dating someone younger I was always told that they had stopped trusting boys under thirty because they can be complete dickheads and most do not know what they really want. So the ...

Its been a few years (5) since I have done the online dating thing, but found that like those posting above, if you take time to get to know someone and are honest about your preferences, if the woman is open to it and she likes you, then anal is probably in your future. Usually after you have chatt...

When you use the term 'she males' it pretty much just marks out the sex industry. Most MtF transgenders identify as women and prefer to be treated as women in and out of bed. But there is a whole range from transvestites/crossdressers (males dressing in female clothes part time), preop/non-op transg...

So perhaps it isn't so strange after all. Actually, I was on a long haul flight into Africa last night and my mind was wandering to African girls I have known. One was a very tiny, petite woman who started out as a friend. She had asked me to give her a ride out to a NYE party we had heard about on ...

I had read that book about ten years ago. I had just started dating a very sexy Italian who had never had anal sex. After trying it one weekend, I gave her a copy of the book. She told me later she had enjoyed it and not surprisingly her interest in anal soared. The next time we spent a weekend toge...

And now I just learned something! But yes, even if the info is out there, finding the right information can be a challenge.

I was wondering if anyone else ever came across this. I met my first wife when I was 26 and she was 21. She was a virgin and at university. We started having sex pretty much right away and she gave me both of her 'virginities.' The first time we had anal though was actually an accident. We were in d...