we've been having sex frequently and started plugging me overnight to keep my anus relaxed for frequent penetration, and for the passive stretching. I've gotten used to the feeling of being plugged while I sleep and we've increased the plug size as I can tolerate it to slowly stretch my rectum. I l...

Personally, I think that's completely a matter of training and goals. And it's important to listen to your body... What works one day might be tough the next. There are plenty of stories of people who wear one continuously for breaks only for bodily functions... But I can't speak to that. I wear a p...

Congratulations! It's a wonderful feeling to finally have a cock in your ass. There's nothing like feeling him cum deep in your ass. I think plugs and regular practice are the best ways to make anal better for both of you. I plug daily (not 24/7) and just the practice of regularly lubing and inserti...

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Thanks for the advice! As a quick update, I told my partner how much I enjoy anal and told him I'm plugging regularly so he can easily take my ass. Unsurprisingly, he loves it and we're having anal much more frequently. 😜 And as a bonus, my ass gets extra attention just from the plug. I'm regularly ...

Hi! Both butt plugs and dildos are a great "warm up" for anal sex. And they're both pleasurable by themselves. I am partial to plugs and enjoy the feeling of wearing them throughout the day... It's a constant reminder that something's there and as you move it rubs gently. But you have to want it... ...

I've always used water-based lubes, and my partner and I have never had a problem. Because I have mostly silicone toys, it's just been easier to keep a lube around that works for everything. Saliva and natural lubrication have never been enough for me. And I've always been mildly concerned about any...

Hi HoneyM ! I've had a similar experience. My partner and I aren't AO (at least yet) in large part because we both enjoy the variety of sexual options. But at least I seem to have the strongest orgasms from anal. And while it is strange to post publicly, I think the more talk there is about sex and ...

For me, anal orgasms are a whole different animal... Unlike clitoral orgasms where it can be uncomfortable to keep playing after finishing, anal orgasms seem to last forever and get better the longer we're having sex. My whole pelvic area gets very warm and tingly and my thoughts focus almost entire...

I (female) was the instigator. Neither me nor my partner had anal experience (and little sexual experience before each other anyway), but I was interested to try - thanks to an adventurous/rebellious streak and porn I think. I don't know if he would have asked eventually without me suggesting it fir...