I have enjoyed atm ever since a bf nearly 15 years ago. The mixture of tastes - my bummie, lube/saliva, followed by the spray of semen - is very arousing.

Have had bfs who brought poppers to the bedroom. I quite enjoyed it and the abandonned sex that followed. With a couple of guys I noticed it affected their erections and I had to work hard to get them fully up - which is necessary if they are gonna punch through my tight sphincter (tee hee). Overall...

Douching with natural yogurt has worked for me

For me, anal only is more than simply anal sex. It is ALL things anal - fingering, rimming, tongue fucking and toys - for both me and my partner.

I fully understand Gracie's problem. My advice is to hang tough. It is difficult to be AO when looking for a lover. I found that if we started getting intimate and I mentioned my preference, it was usually too late to back out if he only wanted vaginal. And then there are guys who agree to anal but ...

My recent bf was a few years older - late 50s. Anal sex was very exciting for him (he had not much experience before he met me and had always fantasised about it). Often he came really fast, maybe a dozen thrusts. He was very apologetic of course, and we had nice cuddles and he would then lick me. H...

Yes, I understand the shame thing. For me it was partly disgust at myself but more worrying what my partner might think. I'm also spontaneous and if anal happens I may not have prepared, so scat is possible. I remember one time with a bf saying he was 'fucking the shit out of me', how awful it was a...

I think this site needs a thread where we can put up a true confession about the anal lifestyle. Most of us, I guess, have had to hide our interest or make excuses or played someone along before coming clean (so to speak). I am happy to start the ball rolling. In my early-40s I started seeing a guy ...

I have tried several times over the years, but never taken more than four fingers and just a thumb tip. My anus simply won't stretch enough. My current gf has been quite determined to do me, but even being stoned and using amyl and heaps of grease, and even though her hand is not large (smaller even...

Yes, it is all about sex and arousal - at least for me. My first experience of it was ATM. I had just been nicely butt-fucked, had enjoyed an intense orgasm, so when my partner presented his cock straight from my arse I barely hesitated to suck it clean. The taint wasn't too bad - earthy and acrid -...